Setting up a friend with a provider

OldGrump's Avatar
That is your friend not Grumpy in the loop Originally Posted by diddleman
Well, he can keep me in the loop too. If his friend backs out, I can be shy.




IOP= ILLUSION of passion. Pretend Love.
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I've always said this is why there are no 'shy' people in Arkansas, the Family Group Therapy model works so well there...lol

Ok, ok, all you Arkansas people, it's a damn joke.
Great idea...for a movie script. Originally Posted by jkerouac
It was. True Romance. Christian Slater, Patricia Arquette, Dennis Hopper, Christopher Walken, James Gandolfini, Brad Pitt.... Written by Quentin Tarantino. Great movie but it didn't end well either. Lol

Well, I take that back. For a Tarantino flick it did.
Hahahaha you guys crack me up!! But thanks for the good advice everyone.

I will put him in the loop and see if he's down for it! I will see if he goes for it and keep y'all updated... happy hump day
Hahahaha you guys crack me up!! But thanks for the good advice everyone.

I will put him in the loop and see if he's down for it! I will see if he goes for it and keep y'all updated... happy hump day Originally Posted by TheFlash8
Cool...but don't count on it building up his confidence with socializing with women. This is not a place to learn the ins and outs of intimacy and love.
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The guy is shy because he is sensitive. Can you imagine his shock when he finds out the date of his life was IOP? Shit man, if he is your friend, tell him you can hook him up with an escort who will show him a good time. If he declines, drop the subject. Originally Posted by OldGrump
+1000
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Cool...but don't count on it building up his confidence with socializing with women. This is not a place to learn the ins and outs of intimacy and love. Originally Posted by Prolongus
true about intimacy and love.

but, at the least, the woman could instruct the guy in the in/out/repeat school of sex.
You may want to intorduce him to the ECCIE board first so that gets acclimated to the idea. Good luck. Out of the Blue
Treat him to a massage with a L1 happy ending if you want to ease him into a world where a pretty girl will be very attentive and build his confidence.

...but tell him what's up ahead of time.
Nope....

Not a good idea (for him or the provider).
Cool...but don't count on it building up his confidence with socializing with women. This is not a place to learn the ins and outs of intimacy and love. Originally Posted by Prolongus
Ya but he will likely learn some killer BCD skills to enhance the love and intimacy when the time cums
OldGrump's Avatar
Ya but he will likely learn some killer BCD skills to enhance the love and intimacy when the time cums Originally Posted by thathottnurse
There are more benefits to that than you think. Because of the hobby, I can talk more openly with my doctors about my ED issues without stammering. I'm even more open with my SO and she enjoys it. It's all good.

A good provider will help you get over the forbidden topics and learn to enjoy sexuality for what it is. Bless all you ladies for that.
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OG, what does "IOP" mean? Originally Posted by German41
Good question. What does it mean?
Illusion of Passion!
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Leonard and Raj hired a provider to flirt and go home with Walowitz (without him knowing). Damn funny episode (Big Bang Season 2). Originally Posted by Little Caesar
If I recall correctly, Walowitz figured it out before the deed was done. But he went with her anyway.