With my own experience, I have found that providing proper information about the location, time and availability of a date is always beneficial. However, on the opposite end of the spectrum, ........
I have always been a fan of dates scheduled in advance - I like to do my own research (when meeting a new friend) and prepare, both myself and my loft, for the oncoming adventure. I have never really experienced the "same-day request" request (unless of course it is from a HBF) so I can't really comment on whether that style of dating is preferable or not.
Originally Posted by klovve
Bingo! very important for the lurkers and researchers.... Even if you have been around awhile, there are new guys joining each week.
I think a ad basically just boosts business for that day... in my opinion by the end of the day or the next day it is pushed to the 2nd or 3rd page so it does not get as many views.
Originally Posted by MarleyMonroe
I luv ya Marley, but I disagree. But then again, Im not a provider either. It may help for that day. But I think the guys that are researching, lurkers ect.. may actually see you from an Ad placed a week or so ago. Plus, the girl maybe running specials and many of us love SPECIALS! $$ Anything that gets you noticed drives business.
Just in my experience, I used to place ads every week/weekend, I built up a nice clientel base then stopped posting.
Dec was the last time I placed an ad for Austin. (maybe 1 weekend ad just for giggles).
The problem I seem to run into lately is that no one really knows if I'm still around except for my regulars. I don't accumulate reviews anymore since all my suitors are repeats. And even some of them never check my signature line to see if I'm out on tour or at home base.
Genesis Nicole
Originally Posted by GenesisNicole
So true! Of course over time the known providers have generated a base clientel that can keep them occupied. But, as stated above, there are new guys joining every day and they don't know that you exist! In fact, this post right here in the COED, may have prompted a few guys to say.... "Wow, who is that!!" ... they check out your showcase, reviews and do some homework and maybe a phone call or two and you just caught a new fish! All from ONE COED post.
I personally don't believe Ad's are the main thing that drives your business, BUT! especially for the new girls they give you a vehicle to be introduced and for the veteran ladies, it let's us know you still exist! You don't have to post an Ad every week, but twice a month or when you are running a special ect. I would like to see more ladies posting in the COED! If you think about it, it is a way to show your personality and get noticed! I know,,,, I know the drama. It's easier than it looks. Just don't get baited into anything and be yourself and don't take it personally. For every guy that doesn't like you for some reason, there is a couple more that are salvating to meet you! Even the negative post generate business! Not to bring up more drama..... But the Tatoo thread on Jules Jaguar from Dallas, she handled the birage and actually bragged how much business she got from the attention! 10 pages of bashing and white knighting and she went home probably with a fat wallet!
What I believe drives any girls business is reviews and word of mouth. Me personally very rarely will see a gal until I've read a couple of reviews or get a vouche from a reliable hobbyist.
I see Genesis's point and will add that more of the old school guys need to do more reviews! Just because you have seen a lady 2 years ago and did a review. You have continued to see this gal but haven't written a review on her in awhile.... write one!. There are a whole lot of new guys that would love to read more current information on the lady. So guys, post more reviews on your ATF. Heck, the lady may have changed. Two years ago she may have been a size 4 for with blonde hair and didn't offer greek. Now, that same lady maybe a size 10, with brown hair and greek is her fav!.
I am guilty of this as well. I just wrote my first review in two years. I plan on writing more in the future.
1.) Ladies post Ad's, not every week, but enough to keep you noticed and us informed of specials ect... And please stop with all the #$**&@)_$_$))(*@_~~~)#*%)#(__@ $@@@@ crap.... It's just mind boggling on the eyes!! I hate those ADs! And please limit the animation. One smiley or kiss is enough but 20!! is a little over board. Post more PICs instead!
2.) Ladies, post more in the COED! Don't get sucked into the drama, just have fun and don't take things personally.
3.) Guys! especially us old-timers.... Post more reviews! That's what it's all about!.
My 2 cents