It's amazing what opening your mind and exploring the possibilities can do for a relationship. .... It's only cheating if the spouse is not OK with it. If both of you are consenting adults with an agreement in place, it's called experimenting, swinging, fantasy play, etc....but not cheating. Best of luck and love to both of you *hugs* Originally Posted by desi.snakesWow great story, best of luck to you both, & happy holidays!