Six in 2 days in ridiculous and I definitely feel the pain of that its money lost and disrespectful on many levels. I prefer to set up appt and one reason is the anticipation of knowing a delicious good time is coming but also as a way to make sure its a time I can show up to and be on time.
Unfortunately the flaky shit is worse than it was 5+ years ago with providers also I have an overnight work trip coming and have reached out to 5 girls after doing a bit of research and my results so far...
One no response it happens ok cool. One msg me back right away looked promising then nothing for a few days before a 'who is this again' and I reintroduced myself 'oh cool when were you looking to meet up?' and now nothing since Monday. A couple did engage a bit and seemed promising until we got to rate / rules and I began to see why they were not busy. The one that seemed most promising sent a couple juicy pics cute honey sweet and flirty even asked for some ideas of what I would enjoy doing in session. Nice connection thought I had a good time coming then a few days ago msg me to ask if I had time that night to call and set up the appt I said sure just let me know what time. Not one word since then.
I feel this will only get worse as we don't really have any way to hold either side accountable. More girls are banking off 'content' and guys are flaky too and deposits are a mix bag at best.