Refund???

But he didn't, and therein lies the crux of the matter. Once he decided to stay he should have honored his entire commitment. You're overlooking the fact that he was ALREADY out to cheat her by not having the agreed upon donation in the envelope. I think buyer's remorse isn't applicable in this situation. Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

I really appreciate your thoughts and thanks for the compliment, Fancy. I usually try my best to alleviate this kind of problem, but that's all I can do. I don't see why they don't just admit they might need viagra or even testosterone patches!!!! It seems like the younger men are easier to please and don't ever have this kind of issue. Also, I think a performance issue is a lot easier to blame on the girl, since it protects the male ego.

I have to agree with Trey and cumalot
Trey is right he already had his refund, tight ass
Cumalot is right it was guilt, he knew he didn't have enough for what he was getting.
If I couldn't get it up, I would blame the lady,
I would just take my medicine and then proceed....Oh Yaaaa
OH and I agree with Fancy that pic is hot very sexy and yes I am straight and now thanks to you I have to go take a cold shower....

I sort of get the “buyer’s remorse” thing, but he should have honored his commitment. I love multiple hour sessions, but I learned early on not to commit to a multiple hour session until you have interacted with a provider for a while.
If I see a well reviewed provider, and she seems to have the look and skills I am looking for, during the initial phone call I mention that I may be interested in a multiple hour session assuming we have chemistry and she doesn’t have any scheduling conflicts. Assuming the first hour is going well, I will then increase the donation and play for another hour or so.
In the past I have made the mistake of scheduling a multiple hour session up front and realized during the early proceedings that I had made a mistake. In some cases I left well before my time was up, but I never asked for a refund.
On another note, I have never had an encounter with a provider where I wasn’t able to completely perform. Although, I’ve had a couple of encounters where a provider had to work tirelessly to get me to the point where I could. Hell, I’ve always tipped them extra for their efforts.
This guy was just a dick.

I agree. After a few mins you know there is no chemistry. You worked extra hard for 2 hours with a limpy. That was on him. You being a good person gave $ back. But really he didn't deserve it.

Haha Fancy lmao. We should charge by the pound. More to love baby lol. You crack me up girl!

“I don't see why they don't just admit they might need viagra or even testosterone patches!!!”

Honestly, I think any mature man should at least consider taking a portion of a Viagra or other ED pill prior to a session. I’ve had sessions where the provider didn’t necessarily appeal to me as much as I had hoped, or perhaps she zigged when I zagged, and things weren’t going quite as well as like. I certainly want to get as much bang for my buck as possible, why even risk wasting time with ED issues? While I don’t have real ED issues at this stage in life, I always take at least a portion of a Viagra just in case the session isn’t going as well as I had hoped.

Exactly. Idk if or who I have seen that has taken viagra lol. I know after a 2 hour session like that can leave you exhausted and with a migrane and ruin the rest of your day. I'm sorry that happen to you.

“I don't see why they don't just admit they might need viagra or even testosterone patches!!!”

Honestly, I think any mature man should at least consider taking a portion of a Viagra or other ED pill prior to a session. I’ve had sessions where the provider didn’t necessarily appeal to me as much as I had hoped, or perhaps she zigged when I zagged, and things weren’t going quite as well as like. I certainly want to get as much bang for my buck as possible, why even risk wasting time with ED issues? While I don’t have real ED issues at this stage in life, I always take at least a portion of a Viagra just in case the session isn’t going as well as I had hoped. Originally Posted by GymRat

After a couple of blow jobs, he did get an erection. The problem was he could not maintain it! I still think that the "no chemistry" deal is an excuse to pay less. Like Amy said, you should know within 15 minutes if there is enough chemistry. The kissing was excellent and so was everything else. The only problem was his maintaining an erection. By the way, I am very easy on the eyes and most men have no problem getting an erection with me! So, I know it's not my looks.

I offered a partial refund because I felt bad for him. But another time on an outcall, the same deal happened and I didn't take any money at all. I was furious!

Yes, I definitely think from now on, I will not schedule longer sessions with new clients. If they like what they see and decide to go ahead with the session, I'm not going to refund any money because they have a performance issue. Thanks a lot everyone!!!!

I really appreciate your thoughts and thanks for the compliment, Fancy. I usually try my best to alleviate this kind of problem, but that's all I can do. I don't see why they don't just admit they might need viagra or even testosterone patches!!!! It seems like the younger men are easier to please and don't ever have this kind of issue. Also, I think a performance issue is a lot easier to blame on the girl, since it protects the male ego. Originally Posted by HoustonMilfDebbie

Just one more comment I can't resist making .... age gets a bad rap for a lot of male inconsistencies. I've had issues with young men who could use doses of Viagra or perhaps patience, and there are mature guys with so much testosterone they leave me feeling like I've been in a marathon! I actually prefer scheduling 3-hour sessions with new clients, as it gives us plenty of time to get acquainted at a natural pace, try everything once, have a drink and a snack, and try everything again! Works for me, anyway.

We can generalize ad infinitum, but a bad experience is more reflective of an individual than an entire category of people, male or female. Sometimes it is what it is, and nothing would have made it better. Live, learn, love, laugh, and last long enough to dance on the graves of your detractors, as the Irish say.

Fancy, How do you know if they have taken Viagra or not? Keep in mind, very few men will admit to it. I hang out with a lot of very fit guys in their late forties to early fifties. I also have a number of coworkers my age. I think you would be surprised at the number of single men that at least keep a little Viagra on hand as a back up.
In addition to keeping it on hand for the hobby, I also keep some for traditional dating, and to this day I have never really had a real ED issue. I wouldn’t dream of going on a first date without first taking a half a Viagra. Once I know I have chemistry in the bedroom with a date or provider, I won’t bother with taking it.
On another note, I occasionally go and see a family physician who takes walk-in patients in the morning when I can’t see my family Doc. I’ve seen him about two or three times, and on every occasion no matter what I am there for, he will offer an unsolicited prescription for Viagra or Cialis. I’ve had a couple of friends who have had the same experience with this Doc. I really think you would be surprised at the number of men both young and old who occasionally take ED meds just in case. And you would never have a clue.

Sometimes its poor circulation and or drug use that can cause ED. And I know many do take viagra, but never had anyone mention it to me.

It is not the girl's fault when a man cannot perform. If she tries and gives him the time, she is entitled to the fee.

Why would a guy admit to a provider he has an ED problem and takes the V pill..hell its degrading enought for the guy to admit it to himself, so why admit it to a provider...And who's to say the guy didn't get a bad pill, that happens.....Life goes on, don't beat the the guy up till you hear his side of the story...like that's gonna happen....

It is not the girl's fault when a man cannot perform. If she tries and gives him the time, she is entitled to the fee. Originally Posted by Owlman

yep.

I dont see whether he had ED or not as the real issue here. From the get go, he was planning to short her on the agreed amount. That is NOT right. If there was a lack of chemistry, then you either make the best of it and move on or end the session right then. I do agree if the provider delivers on her end of the set activities and tried to please, then this is NOT her fault and she should not be punished, whether with a bad review or a refund. Im sorry for both of them as this session left both with bad feelings, which as this is all fantasy..............It should be about the fun.