Discussing Rates

If they are already screened, I don't see why it would make you nervous.

I don't mind when asking the rate or specials , but I do not appreciate when they say how much to f3ck in the ass or how much do I have 2 pay for you to do this or that ,that is definite way I get nervous + cancel

I don't mind when asking the rate or specials , but I do not appreciate when they say how much to f3ck in the ass or how much do I have 2 pay for you to do this or that ,that is definite way I get nervous + cancel Originally Posted by AmericanGeisha

Would you rather have them ask or just proceed to do it. How are they supposed to find out?

Would you rather have them ask or just proceed to do it. How are they supposed to find out? Originally Posted by burkalini

Clairvoyance. After all, the rate if for time only.

Clairvoyance. After all, the rate if for time only. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

No shit

Most conscientious hobbyists want to make sure the provider is paid correctly -- they especially don't want to short her, or alternately have her believe she was shorted even though she wasn't.. Originally Posted by Laurentius

CONSCIENTIOUS is the key word here .. unfortunately most guys who ask for rate do it for different reasons.


1) They just could not find the rate on ad. Numbers were written in invisible ink or were hiding behind them photos. That page on web site titled PACKAGES was not visible enough.. it was just right on same panel as Gallery page and totally completely invisible

2) Attempt at negotiation. "how much" asked on off chance that she is having slow day and will quote something lower than stated rate.

I used to hang up after "how much" question .. these days I am allowing myself a little fun. Once asked for rate I quote DOUBLE of stated rates .. want to wager a guess as to how many times the response was "WHAT??? BUT YOUR AD SAID $$$$!!!!"

Amazing how all of a sudden previously "missed" rate is clear and known.

Lina

CONSCIENTIOUS is the key word here .. unfortunately most guys who ask for rate do it for different reasons.


1) They just could not find the rate on ad. Numbers were written in invisible ink or were hiding behind them photos. That page on web site titled PACKAGES was not visible enough.. it was just right on same panel as Gallery page and totally completely invisible

2) Attempt at negotiation. "how much" asked on off chance that she is having slow day and will quote something lower than stated rate.

I used to hang up after "how much" question .. these days I am allowing myself a little fun. Once asked for rate I quote DOUBLE of stated rates .. want to wager a guess as to how many times the response was "WHAT??? BUT YOUR AD SAID $$$$!!!!"

Amazing how all of a sudden previously "missed" rate is clear and known.

Lina Originally Posted by Sensual Lina

One of the reasons we ask is that on the providers multiple ads there are 3 different prices. Some sites the providers offer discounts. Some ads say " SPECIALS" and we want to know what they are. ( usually no different than the regular price) Then finally what does the price include. This question is the most difficult to get answered since alot of providers don't advertise ( understandable) what their fantasy menu is. WE just want to know what's going to happen and how much will your time cost for that.

One of the reasons we ask is that on the providers multiple ads there are 3 different prices. Some sites the providers offer discounts. Some ads say " SPECIALS" and we want to know what they are. ( usually no different than the regular price) Then finally what does the price include. This question is the most difficult to get answered since alot of providers don't advertise ( understandable) what their fantasy menu is. WE just want to know what's going to happen and how much will your time cost for that. Originally Posted by burkalini

Very good point. The question of rates is going to be closely followed with the question regarding services. To simply advertise as GFE or A-Level escort is meaningless. Why do you think we have on going discussions regarding the definition of GFE? When I buy a car, I don't just settle for just any car. I'm going to want to know what features and options are on it. If the car lacks my desired options, I'll pass. The same is true of providers. If I don't know the menu ( have a damn good idea of the menu), I'm not going to see a girl and hope my "fantasies" come true. I have to know walking in the door that X, Y and Z are available. And this is precisely related to price/donation rate. Why do you think there is such an uproar over the changes at E.com? It is because THE most useful information has been scrubbed. The providers can no longer state their rates or services. The reviews have been completely erased other than meaningless one liners. I enjoy my time with providers, but at some point money has to be discussed along with the value for that money. If a provider puts up a stone wall to these issues, I have to question whether or not I want to see her.

I don't post rates in several of my ads, but I always post a link to my website where even the cluless of the bunch has it broken down for them lol.

My rates are the same no matter where I travel, but locally I have a 90 min. min. All of this is also broken down.

One of the reasons we ask is that on the providers multiple ads there are 3 different prices. Some sites the providers offer discounts. Some ads say " SPECIALS" and we want to know what they are. ( usually no different than the regular price) Then finally what does the price include. This question is the most difficult to get answered since alot of providers don't advertise ( understandable) what their fantasy menu is. WE just want to know what's going to happen and how much will your time cost for that. Originally Posted by burkalini

If I find two different rates (or 3 or 4, etc.), I always cite the ad with the lowest rate. I'm assured by providers that they know which sites have which rates.

But a word to the ladies. I really, really dislike looking all over the 'net for your ads and websites. I appreciate when every ad, p411/datecheck listing or the like points to one place which lists only the current rates and specials.

Very good point. The question of rates is going to be closely followed with the question regarding services. To simply advertise as GFE or A-Level escort is meaningless. Why do you think we have on going discussions regarding the definition of GFE? When I buy a car, I don't just settle for just any car. I'm going to want to know what features and options are on it. If the car lacks my desired options, I'll pass. The same is true of providers. If I don't know the menu ( have a damn good idea of the menu), I'm not going to see a girl and hope my "fantasies" come true. I have to know walking in the door that X, Y and Z are available. And this is precisely related to price/donation rate. Why do you think there is such an uproar over the changes at E.com? It is because THE most useful information has been scrubbed. The providers can no longer state their rates or services. The reviews have been completely erased other than meaningless one liners. I enjoy my time with providers, but at some point money has to be discussed along with the value for that money. If a provider puts up a stone wall to these issues, I have to question whether or not I want to see her. Originally Posted by Cpalmson

Well, as companion with two pages of reviews on TER averaging 9.2 in performance I think "menu" questions are pretty much answered

Lina

One of the reasons we ask is that on the providers multiple ads there are 3 different prices. Some sites the providers offer discounts. Some ads say " SPECIALS" and we want to know what they are. ( usually no different than the regular price) Then finally what does the price include. This question is the most difficult to get answered since alot of providers don't advertise ( understandable) what their fantasy menu is. WE just want to know what's going to happen and how much will your time cost for that. Originally Posted by burkalini

Understandable. Once again, I can only respond from POV of MY practice, which is to keep consistency in rates across the board. If I do offer specials, it is always spelled out in the ad what those specials are.

Most common special I personally run are Pre-Booking discounts ... so ad will say what discount is and what is the cut off date for such discount.

Lina

I don't post rates in several of my ads, but I always post a link to my website where even the cluless of the bunch has it broken down for them lol.

My rates are the same no matter where I travel, but locally I have a 90 min. min. All of this is also broken down. Originally Posted by London Rayne

You and a few other providers do what we guys like.. have 1 central site where the rates and stuff is posted... all ads you post where ever have links back to your site thus they can see if any specials are in effect.

When I find a lady that takes the time to have her own registered site I bookmark it and I prefer to see those.

Because she is doing all this, she is more serious about things and not some "fly by night" and I seriously doubt a lady who has a pimp, does no calls no shows, or any other alert worthy act will go to this trouble. Websites are registered to someone so that means a do badder already has a paper trail.

Hmmm u have a good point there! I need to finish my site & put it on my ads prob this week since I am out of school on Thanksgiving break & just working ( & not studying like a bad girl >;-] ) so there is no question of any thing need to be known, I do try to make everything clear on my ads though so that there is no confusion Thanks for the responses!

If a guy and a gal have progressed to the point of wanting to make the date, I sometime confirm the rate with the lady, because I want to make sure her time is taken care of. Sometimes I'll ask for something not shown anywhere.

Ex: What if we spend 2 hrs out. No bcd. Is

Ex: Overnights available, call.

Sometimes, what seems clear to the lady, isn't clear to the guy. Also, guys look at many ladies profiles, ads, reviews. It gets overwhelming and he just want a quick answer without having to do more work.