having more than 1 guy... hotwife question

Some hotwife dynamics the husband participated too, along with giving instructions. While I personally think women who are in touch with their sexuality enough to have sex with multiple partners are very sexy. But neither my wife or I are just watchers. We both want to participate. Guys just don't do anything for me so we are more swinges. Or see providers together usually with the providers boyfriend. It would be easier on me and cheaper if she was just into watching. Lol