How did you get into hobbying? (Question for the gents AND ladies)

Met a girl in NY about 8 years ago and we started dating. She was Asian and some friend of hers got her into doing massages...which were apparently off of CL. This of courses ended our relationship after many arguments. I wasn't able to convince her to retire so out of partial anger and total curiosity I found someone from CL who was offering massage+. I've been addicted ever since. In recent years I've moved on from a simple HJ to FS. Aside from the damn legal repercussions, I love this hobby and only wish I could afford it on a more frequent basis.
After her and I broke up, I ended up getting one of her massages.....it was one of the most amazing HJ's I've ever gotten. God bless her for turning me onto this!!

I was in Houston on business one Tuesday night and thought I'd check out the local strip clubs (back then, I was expecting nothing but visual entertainment; I don't know if extras were available in the mid-90s and, if they were, had no idea). I went to one on Westheimer, sat down, and began to peruse the place.

Forty-five minutes later, I hadn't even been visited by a waitress, let alone a dancer. Pissed off, I left, got in my car, turned right out of the back of the parking lot and quickly found myself intersecting Fountainview. There, what to my horny eyes should appear but a place called Executive XTC. I decided to check it out.

Within 15 minutes, I was getting a handjob from a beautiful slender brunette, and for not much more than I'd been prepared to spend on dances at the SC. I had never experienced the simple joy of the HJTC, and was so impressed I went back twice more that week.

Not long afterwards, I was sent to NYC for an extended period. Like a previous poster, I picked up one of the many sex mags available and broke my FS cherry with an English lass named "Liberty," who, after a CBJ, in those days of hyper-AIDS vigilance, double-bagged me for the sex-as-defined-by-Clinton part.

Then I found a high-class brothel two blocks from my hotel and left the city broke but happy.

Well, for me it was a couple of years ago. I was in Costa Rica on business and I was staying near the infamous Hotel del Rey. I knew they had a small casino there and so I went over to play some blackjack. And O.M.G.!!!! I found myself in the middle of dozens and dozens of some very beautiful, sexy women of all shapes, sizes and colors. It was like a candy store for adults. Unbelievable!

After I finished playing, I was sitting at the bar having a drink while admiring the beauties when a beautiful young blonde (with long naturally curly hair, big boobs, very sexy eyes and a killer smile) sat down next to me and started up a conversation. One thing led to another and I ended up partying with her and one of her friends all night long. I hadn't done anything like that in years and I had a blast. I ended up taking the blonde back to my room for some extracurricular activities. Wow! First time I'd been laid in quite some time (I've been married) and it blew my mind.

Went back a couple of nights later to try to find the blonde again, but no luck. I did run into her friend later though, and we ended up having a good time. I've been hooked (hookered?) ever since.

When I got back home, I explored the internet for what might be available locally, found ASDP and later, eccie, and never looked back. Opened my eyes to a whole new world I didn't know even existed. My only regret is that I didn't find the hobby earlier. I've met some wonderful ladies here and can't wait to get acquainted with many more.

And I'm going back to Costa Rica soon. May stay awhile this time. he, he, he.

I was in Calgary Canada in 1986 at a customer sight, middle of winter, colder than a guy from Texas had ever been before. Sitting in the break room glancing through a newspaper I ran across ads with pictures for "escorts". I had no idea what they were so I asked one of the guys and he told me to call one up that nght. So I did, she told me the rate to come out (I forget what it was but don't remember it being too high), and I told her to come on out. Still had no idea what would really happen.

When I opened the door, wow! She was about 5 years older than me and really hot. I still remember when she took her coat off she was only wearing a bra, panties, garter, stockings, and heels and she was sexy as hell. It was like something out of a movie. I awkwardly gave her the money and had a really good time trying a few new things I didn't know anything about. Remember, there was no internet back then and you had to go to a movie theater to see porn. I'm pretty sure I can give a minute by minute account of the experience even after all these years.

It was back in the late 80's at an AMP. I remember going in the front door of the place having no idea how this was supposed to work. I had absolutely no clue! I was nervous as hell...but, in I went!

There was only one lady working there that night. She was nice enough, and pretty attractive, but spoke little-to-no English. I figured out it was $40 for the half hour, so I handed that over, and off we went to the room. After the table shower, which was very mechanical (but was still kind of a turn-on to have her hands all over my body), we went back to room again.

I started off face down. Still nervous as hell. I guess the massage was okay, but when she started spend some time on my ass and inner thighs and occasionally brushing the boys, I started to relax and enjoy it. When she turned me over, I was rock hard already. She smiled and gestured--basically asking if I wanted a HJ or a BJ. Being nervous and a newbie, I went for the HJ ($40, I recall--I had zero idea what it should cost, but seemed fair to me). She undressed and I remember playing with her ass as she stroked me to completion. I loved it! In fact, I went back the next two nights--different ladies each time, but each one was a hell of a lot of fun. I was hooked...and have been ever since.

The first time for me (aside from bonafide Mexican whorehouses) was about 15 years ago. I met a gal from a well known Dallas topless club at a nice uptown restaurant for lunch and our plan (devised the night before while I was blind drunk at the topless bar) was to head to the hotel afterwards for an afternoon of non-stop and unabridged delight. I had spent countless hours with her at least twenty times before at the topless joint, and had received lots of quick BBBJ and HJ and "stick it in" lapdances up to that point. As it turned out, I was too freekin' paranoid (and horribly hung-over) to follow through and faked a call from the office before we ever sat down for lunch. I immediately headed out to take care of "the emergency". She was fairly pissed and unfortunately I didn't see her too much after that. I guess that was "the beginning". I never really realized they worked outside the bar, too. DUH!

I'm a Scorpio and you know what we like to do best and most of the time is...... FUCK and FUCK alot!

I had friends who were in the hobby. They suggested I start providing after I experienced my first layoff in the corporate world. While I had nothing against doing this, I opted to stay in the corporate world, but after just a year, I experienced another layoff. The layoffs and the current state of the economy were the catalysts that initiated my new, and what I have found to be, much more rewarding career.

Just got sucked into it. Originally Posted by pyramider

in my case, literally!!!!
i've recounted this before.
i never had a women take me all the way to completion orally.
so, when i found a professional conference in las vegas in my speciality, i asked my boss and she said sure, go learn something. little did she know.

this was back in '98 and scant info on the internet. well, there was one guy who had a website on nevada brothels [not this one http://www.nevadabrothelreviews.net/ but even better]. there was basic direction info and detailed reviews w/ names, prices, activities. i scribbled down some names of women were gave bjs and had above average reviews.

after i arrived in las vegas, i checked into the hotel and immediately drove to pahrump, nv, home of The Chicken Ranch.
i walked up to the door and walked in. the madam was there, and newbie me said "i'd like to visit w/ a woman who really enjoys giving blowjobs." she said "uh, just wait until you get w/ the women to find out."

the CR is like a bunch of mobile homes stitched together. the front one has a waiting room and a bar. i sat in the waiting room [on a couch covered in plastic just like at your grandma's] and the madam called for a lineup. close to a dozen young women lined up - blondes, brunettes, redheads, black haired; latinas, asians, caucasians. small breasts, large breasts. tall, short, and medium. HOLY CRAP!! then they all said "hi, i'm julie" or whatever. since i didnt have the scribbled names, i had to guess who might be THE ONE.

well, Alexis, an attractive blonde with a nice body, seemed like someone that was reviewed but i couldnt be sure. i selected her.

we walked back to her room, went thru the "dick check", and negotiated services. her menu's price for 1/2 and 1/2 was way more than i thought it would be, so i requested more bj than fs and she said $600!!!! remember, this is 1998! i agreed and she directed me to the shower down the hall and said "pls use the betadine that's in the shower there."

i returned and long story short, i experienced THE MOST INCREDIBLE ENTIRE BODY TINGLING AND ON FIRE fellatio i have ever experienced. better than any i have experienced in dallas and i've experienced some excellent deliteful ones here.
and, get this, it was a COVERED fellatio treatment!!!

after she fininshed, my body kept orgasming/spasming for a few minutes - i couldnt move, i just wanted to fully experience that. she asked if i was ok and all i could say was "yessssssss!" when i came down from the exosphere, we cuddled in bed for a bit longer then i went to take another shower, i was drenched in perspiration. when i got back, we talked for a bit and i left.

THANKS YOU ALEXIS!!!!
i've never looked back!! but am always looking for something close to that.

My intro to the hobby was at the Chicken Ranch in LaGrange before that idiot from Houston got it shut down.

During my college years my roommate told me about the place, he used to live not far from it. So one weekend we decided to check it out. When we arrived in town we had not idea where it was. Stopped at gas station and asked directions of the clerk, he knew exactly where it was and gave us great directions.

Drove out of town a bit and turned onto a gravel road that looked llike it was leading into deep back woods area. Then we came up on the house in the middle of nowhere. Parked in front and rang the bell and was admitted inside.

There was 2 waiting rooms in front and we took a seat. Shortly about 6 girls came out of the back and greeted us. Told us that just take your pick and have fun. We each picked our choice, mine was a short blonde with great tits and ass. She led me back to her room and explained about the services and prices. Once we agreed on what package I wanted she took the money and disappeared for a short time. Upon her return she helped me undress and then checked jr to make sure I was clean. Then we got down to BCD. We did everything, all positions with lots of dirty talk and kissing. After the pop she cleaned me up with a warm cloth and we got dressed and went back to the waiting room where I waited on my friend to finish.

Interesting side note: When we got back to the room she offered me a coke in the bottle for $1.00 which I paid , thought it was what I was supposed to do.

When we were ready to leave the woman who had let us in told us to come back again and be careful driving home.

Here's the kicker: when we walked out there was a police car sitting next to ours with 2 cops inside. They smiled and asked where we were from and if we were going back that night. They told us about a few radar traps between LaGrange and our home town(turned out to be true). Told us to come back anytime.

That got me started. For a while I was going down at least once a month usually taking several of my buddies with me. About the third time I went I got to me the madam who thanked me for bringing extra business with me each time I came down. The next time I went down she arranged for me to have a free date with the girl of my choice.

Nowadays that would be a long way to drive, but while it was open I never had a problem with anyone there and always had a great time.

Since I was basically meeting strangers off on-line dating for hookups, this just seemed to be a natural progression for my instatiable appetite. A friend suggested it, I debated it, then jumped in.

Found out my wife was a Provider and I had been Hobbying for years.

Found out my wife was a Provider and I had been Hobbying for years. Originally Posted by 2007c6Rocks

LOL that's WILD but I guess it goes hand in hand and you guys probably have an understanding relationship about it all... That's hard to find, but then again, I haven't heard that scenario yet....
Did you find out after you guys got married???
And is your wife still a provider?
I guess the extra money she makes takes care of some of ur hobbying expenses ^_^

Sexual addiction issues. Allows me to carry on a normal relationship and not have to spend $500 an hour of my damn therapist.

I started young...a woman I once knew was doin very well in the bizz and I was very intested in learning more...she told me some things I still follow by that have helped me... I got a few reviews on aspd and met some wonderful men..in fact they were so great to me I didn't need to be verified and I didn't need any new clients..those men were the only few I needed to see I was well taken care of...now that I am a few years older I want to take things to the next level I want to travel more meet intresting men from all over and really enjoy life while I'm young and I belive I can do that as a provider...I very much love being a provider and I hope to be the best I can be and enjoy everything it has to offer..and I understand I'm young and have sooo much to learn in this hobby and I am ready to lean it all!