I'd like some advice please

Randy you should be able to share much of the details in the Alert Forum....not her real name or address but her hobby name and phone number and what happened from your perspective. Mods please jump in and clear up what he can/can't share on this board.

Randy I'm guessing that she is not someone that is on this board because what she did would spread like wild fire and she wouldn't last long. I suggest that you check this one off as a lesson learned and move forward and find the girl/girls that are on this site that will rock your world. You got your "mulligan" in the hobby out of the way early. I can't wait to hear about your first outstanding session with a lady. It's like that magical feeling you had Christmas morning as a kid.........except your buck nekid too !!

Ladies you may want to PM Randy and see which one of you gets to pop his cherry first and welcome him to the Hood !!

Randy, I agree with Sir Hardin Thicke with the information. I think any information she put in an advertisement is fair game, since she put it out there, we're not outing any information that isn't public. I would not put specific address either, but a phone number is a very identifiable information - if that is that phone she used for "business" or she put the phone number in her ad, that is also public information. You're not outing anyone, just pointing out which advertisement is a cash & dash. In fact, you could post a link to an ad (assuming you got in touch with her via an online ad).

Randy here is the guideline to follow when you post an alert if you choose to...

#5 - Outing or threats of outing are taken seriously. Membership here is anonymous and for the privacy of our members it will remain that way. That means any effort or attempt to connect a person's real world information to their username on this board will be dealt with swiftly and harshly. This includes real names, employment, medical info, addresses past or present, images, criminal or driving record, etc. We expect everyone who participates here to respect and go to great lengths to protect the anonymity and privacy of one another. Reckless disregard or accidental outing will also be taken very seriously

sixx

Randy here is the guideline to follow when you post an alert if you choose to...

#5 - Outing or threats of outing are taken seriously. Membership here is anonymous and for the privacy of our members it will remain that way. That means any effort or attempt to connect a person's real world information to their username on this board will be dealt with swiftly and harshly. This includes real names, employment, medical info, addresses past or present, images, criminal or driving record, etc. We expect everyone who participates here to respect and go to great lengths to protect the anonymity and privacy of one another. Reckless disregard or accidental outing will also be taken very seriously

sixx Originally Posted by sixxbach

Randy,
If I might add to what sixxbach wrote regarding rule #5. The key phrase is "Membership here is anonymous and for the privacy of our members it will remain that way."

Is the person in question a member here? You can do a simple search with the search function and determine if she is a member of our community. If she is not, then you are not compromising a "member's" identity. I still do not advocate giving out anyone's personal information, but if you were to tell us through an alert where you found her and the name she was using there, that might prevent someone else from having a similar experience. I understand that you do not yet have premium access so if you want to send the information to either sixxbach or myself, we can see that it is at least posted in the Men's Lounge forum so the members with access there can see the information. Sharing information such as this is one of the main functions of this community.

Welcome to the community. Sorry your initial experience was to "take one for the team" (toftt). There are lots of wonderful ladies here that will live up to and surpass the expectation if just given the chance.

Spacemtn
AustinModStaff

Hi Randy--

Welcome to eccie! I understand your hesistancy to post about your unfortunate experience. Maybe think about it this way...by posting the information you will be helping the next guy avoid being ripped off in a similar manner. I think many girls get away with running their scams because nice guys like you don't want to be negative.

I am a bit surprised that this girl invited you to an incall at a student-type place. And I am even more surprised that she screamed warnings to you about posting your experience on eccie. My new Wal-Mart bullshit meter (no offense intended, Randy) is on backorder, so I will assume your story to be true as have the other kind members. They have given good advice.

Good luck to you!

Casey

I am a bit surprised that this girl invited you to an incall at a student-type place. And I am even more surprised that she screamed warnings to you about posting your experience on eccie. My new Wal-Mart bullshit meter (no offense intended, Randy) is on backorder, so I will assume your story to be true as have the other kind members. They have given good advice.

Good luck to you!

Casey Originally Posted by CaseyTaylor

what is it with everybody shopping at Wal-Mart? That is so '90s. Shop online. Amazon.com is where it's at, people! You can get next day delivery, select from a ton of associated vendors so you hardly ever run into back-orders, and you have anonymity and privacy if your purchase is a little unconventional. Just look at what I found! It works like a charm.

Here's a screen capture of it in operation as I was telling my boss in the break room at work that I couldn't tell that he was wearing a toupee.

heck! i got 2 of them. theyre keepin my glasses on

Gentlemen and ladies, let's get back on track, please.

Spacemtn
AustinModStaff

Hello Randy and welcome to ECCIE. I am so sorry for the problem you had with this girl and it's pitiful that she took your money and did not honor her word.
Randy, I would love for you to come see me so I can show you how the ladies on ECCIE will treat a man. If you look for reviews on me you won't find but one because I perfer it that way. I like to keep the sexy details between us since I am different with each person. Every man is different so what I do with one, might not be done with the other.
To verify, that you will be safe with me ask the guys who Breannaforfun is and they will let you know alright.
Please call me on my cell at 214-780-8401 and we will be able to visit and plan our special meeting. When you get to my incall leave your money in the truck my dear because that is not needed. I would be honored to spend some time with you at no cost. I look forward to hearing from you Randy...btw I am a country girl from East-Texas (wink)

Hugs & Kisses!
Breanna

I would be honored to spend some time with you at no cost. [/I]I look forward to hearing from you Randy...btw I am a country girl from East-Texas (wink)


Hugs & Kisses!
Breanna Originally Posted by breannaforfun

Well Randy if the skeptics are right then You my friend are Brilliant and I bow to your marketing genius. If the majority of kind folks here are right then your bad experience has brought you much fortune and gold ten times over.

Breanna for FREE and a whole bevy of additional beauties who will likely waive the usual mandatory prescreening requirements considering you've just entered the scene without a single reference. They will do this in order to make up for a good ole country boy's bad experience in the big bad city. I was half tempted to call Breanna myself and tell her my name is Randy but NOBODY would Ever believe me to be a country boy lol. Breanna don't be surprised if you get 4 or 5 Randy's calling.

Amigo I really like your style either way. You are the man hands down.

CodyBeast,
Please read what I posted one more time..I never said I was not going to screen him so I do not understand why you would assume then post such a comment? Breanna for FREE and a whole bevy of additional beauties who will likely waive the usual mandatory prescreening requirements considering you've just entered the scene without a single reference. They will do this in order to make up for a good ole country boy's bad experience in the big bad city. I was half tempted to call Breanna myself and tell her my name is Randy but NOBODY would Ever believe me to be a country boy lol. Breanna don't be surprised if you get 4 or 5 Randy's calling.
Well..I am a provider that really appreciates the men I am able to spend time with. If I did not enjoy what I do, then it would not bother me to know a new guy (Randy) set out to experience the hobby lifestyle and ended up with a horrible experience. I feel the best I can do to help the matter is offer to see him and he would not be out anymore money. Seeing him at no cost is not going to break me. Also, he lives in Austin and would have to travel a distance to come so if he does that then he deserves to be done right. If the distance is too far for him to travel then the kind gesture I have shown would be appreciated. What confuses me is your posting I am not going to screen him as required. What makes you think that? I made the offer then asked him to contact me and that is when I would screen him. I realize he is new and he has not given any reviews on the board. Knowing this just means I need to be cautious and smart before meeting. He has to see a provider before a provider will be able to vouch for him, then he would also be able to post a review.
When people call my cell phone I am able to see the first and last name of the caller right on my caller id.
I would ask him for a work number then call to see if he is employed where he says he is.
I have also asked new hobbiest for their DL# then ran that to get a home address to compare to what he told me during the screening process to see if they matched. I care, I appreciate, and I am always cautious so that is why I have never had a problem yet.

Breanna what an AWESOME an generous offer to Randy........Randy...Dude..... ..if you don't have those high school giddy butterflies in your gut right now....you ain't gotta pulse!!!

CodyBeast,
Please read what I posted one more time..I never said I was not going to screen him so I do not understand why you would assume then post such a comment? Breanna for FREE and a whole bevy of additional beauties who will likely waive the usual mandatory prescreening requirements considering you've just entered the scene without a single reference. They will do this in order to make up for a good ole country boy's bad experience in the big bad city. I was half tempted to call Breanna myself and tell her my name is Randy but NOBODY would Ever believe me to be a country boy lol. Breanna don't be surprised if you get 4 or 5 Randy's calling.
Well..I am a provider that really appreciates the men I am able to spend time with. If I did not enjoy what I do, then it would not bother me to know a new guy (Randy) set out to experience the hobby lifestyle and ended up with a horrible experience. I feel the best I can do to help the matter is offer to see him and he would not be out anymore money. Seeing him at no cost is not going to break me. Also, he lives in Austin and would have to travel a distance to come so if he does that then he deserves to be done right. If the distance is too far for him to travel then the kind gesture I have shown would be appreciated. What confuses me is your posting I am not going to screen him as required. What makes you think that? I made the offer then asked him to contact me and that is when I would screen him. I realize he is new and he has not given any reviews on the board. Knowing this just means I need to be cautious and smart before meeting. He has to see a provider before a provider will be able to vouch for him, then he would also be able to post a review.
When people call my cell phone I am able to see the first and last name of the caller right on my caller id.
I would ask him for a work number then call to see if he is employed where he says he is.
I have also asked new hobbiest for their DL# then ran that to get a home address to compare to what he told me during the screening process to see if they matched. I care, I appreciate, and I am always cautious so that is why I have never had a problem yet. Originally Posted by breannaforfun

Breanna
As Candyman stated that was an awesome and extremely generous offer. You clearly have a heart of gold. It's a given you would verify phone & workplace at the least.

If you read my post again a) It was stated with a touch of humor evident in the multiple Randy's will call and b) I specifically referred to the usual ECCIE provider requirement of recent provider references or even p411 for that matter which I did not mention.

I used the term "Will Likely" waive provider referral screening (Because the story tugs at the heart strings). I did not state as a fact that he Would not be screened by you or any of the other providers touched by his story. How could I?
You simply told him to call you and leave his money in the truck. That part I did catch. None of that is even remotely the point.

The point is he seems a genuinely good guy to me as is evident in my initial post but Casey's observations in her post plus his publicly "seeking advice" while stating upfront he would Not identify the offender out of respect to a young lady made me consider that there may be more than one possibility or scenario here. This in turn made me think this guy is either for real or he is Brilliant. Considering all possibilities should not be confused with being skeptical. As stated I like the guy either way.

Regardless it's a win-win for everyone and I heartily Applaud and welcome him and I adore/appreciate your beautiful, giving and warm Texan nature. Not bad marketing on your part either as I would call you and gladly pay whatever based upon that kind sweet spirit alone. Guys tend to love compassionate girls.
I would also add that in spite of all the bickering and banter on these forums one can clearly see that both the hobbyists and providers here are generally very caring supportive people when it comes down to it.

It's about time we had a feel good story around here and I am all for it. Problem is my brain tends to look at multiple possibilities or scenarios in every situation. That's probably from too many years of problem solving and playing chess. However it Has helped me avoid more than one pothole on the road of life

Again Randy welcome and we're glad to have you aboard.

Thanks so much CodyBeast for taking time out to explain what you were saying in the other post about me. I appreciate that and I feel better. I feel Randy was not expecting this to turn out like it did and was looking to other hobbiest to see if that occurs often in this lifestyle.
Since he has been able to get our opinion and shared some experiences we have had he should be able to let it go while not letting this stop him from giving it another shot since he said he was lonely.
It would be nice of him to post her information on the board so she would not be able to do this again.
The name she gave you most likely is a first name that was made up to protect herself and her phone number is a cell number that can easily be changed if needed.
Please share what information you have on her alright...that is what I would do since there is nothing your able to do to get your money back. Allow us to protect ourselves and others ...not HER!

Randy, first off, welcome to the community and second, sorry your first experience was rather lousy.

However, imo you need to assess

-- why you are here and

-- why you think you need to hobby.

If it is as you posted, that you are lonely and in need of some companionship, then do your research in the civilian world, match.com etc. etc. etc.

If it is just about the sex, then my suggestion would be to check into the availability of many of the "mature" providers who would be closer to your age and way more sympathetic to a beginner.

btw, if you don't have the requisite budget for any of the above, then you are definitely here for the wrong reasons.