Incall. As a hobbyist with a family, I don't want a provider to know where I live, how much or how little I own, or have a provider walk up to my door in fishnet stockings! The neighbors would definitely talk. Originally Posted by mrhammI have only done an outcall once, it was a weekday afternoon and she left with her stripper shoes on. Of course my neighbors like to be nosy and saw her leave. Now I'm the talk of the town.