Has anyone ever experienced Performance Anxiety?

Thanks Civil. I am 38 and never had anything like this happen before...it may just be in my head..a little anxiety because she is incredibly beautiful. My concern is "needing" those blue pills. It's hell getting old...lol Originally Posted by brady

Wow, just think 40 is around the corner!

I have that book also

Also, recommend (author) Bernie Zilbergeld's "The New Male Sexuality". Solid practical info, not dubious off-the-seat-of-the-pants remarks from strangers. Originally Posted by NorthWood

Bernie's writing sexuality books now? Wow. I knew him years ago when he was a tech writer.

Funny you should ask.
My ATF was visiting Her sister up in Conroe, we decided to get get together last night. I told Her I could just drive up, get a room for the night off 242, just like a real guest.

We met there, went to the Red Lobster for a great meal, spent a long time there, just enjoying ourselves. Got back to Hotel about 8, and had a good evening BCD. She was leaving about 11, I told Her I would just stay there and get a good nights sleep. She then asked if I would like for her to come back at about 6 in the morning. You bet.

Well, it has been a LONG time since I had a great night of BCD activity and then the same less than 7 hours later. I was very concerned, when I heard the knock on the door this morning, I was full of anxiety. (Keep in mind, in one month I will be 64).

I think she sensed this, and took over, and with Her skills, and my wanting to, everything went great.

Of course, I can barely walk right now. But what the heck.

Funny you should ask.
My ATF was visiting Her sister up in Conroe, we decided to get get together last night. I told Her I could just drive up, get a room for the night off 242, just like a real guest.

We met there, went to the Red Lobster for a great meal, spent a long time there, just enjoying ourselves. Got back to Hotel about 8, and had a good evening BCD. She was leaving about 11, I told Her I would just stay there and get a good nights sleep. She then asked if I would like for her to come back at about 6 in the morning. You bet.

Well, it has been a LONG time since I had a great night of BCD activity and then the same less than 7 hours later. I was very concerned, when I heard the knock on the door this morning, I was full of anxiety. (Keep in mind, in one month I will be 64).

I think she sensed this, and took over, and with Her skills, and my wanting to, everything went great.

Of course, I can barely walk right now. But what the heck. Originally Posted by Jackie S

You go Jackie! Be proud to be doing that at your age. I just hope I can get it up by then.

Went to see a girl I've been talking to (which has since become a long distance relationship). Found myself having a hard time getting it up which is crazy because she is gorgeous. This has me worried. Hoping I can hear from someone who has experienced it and been able to overCOME. ANY and all advice is greatly appreciated! Originally Posted by brady

Never been an issue for anyone here. that includes the voices in my head.

My ATF .. everything went great. Originally Posted by Jackie S

Jackie, If this is your colorful redheaded beauty GF you're talking about, I would think that very few small brains would hide out from her for long.

Bernie's writing sexuality books now? Wow. I knew him years ago when he was a tech writer. Originally Posted by blowpop

Different Bernie. This one was the real fcking deal, THE expert on this subject imo. Here's a link to his obituary which lays out his CV etc. I assume you're making funny, Blowpop? It's not very funny to the anxious.

http://www.nytimes.com/2002/06/21/us...sexuality.html

I know someone who had a specialized performance anxiety problem so bad, constant, and devastating that he spent a year talking to a psychologist on a weekly basis about it without relief. A job transfer put a stop to the counseling. He stumbled upon Bernie's book a little while later, read it, the next time he had an opportunity he wooded up and fcked like normal+, and never looked back. I think the book cost him about $30 hardback. Seems like decent value to me.