I'm an idiot, need advice.

I wasn't going to address this, because I thought it was a bit silly to assume to be honest, but no. I didn't ask her to go to the movies with me, nor to the state fair. Also, I didn't ask her to prom. I'm not sure why anyone on this board would assume such a thing to be honest.

I do appreciate the feedback you guys have given, and going forward I won't take it so personally. I'm sure she had her reasons, and all I can do is move on.

I wasn't going to address this, because I thought it was a bit silly to assume to be honest, but no. I didn't ask her to go to the movies with me, nor to the state fair. Also, I didn't ask her to prom. I'm not sure why anyone on this board would assume such a thing to be honest.

I do appreciate the feedback you guys have given, and going forward I won't take it so personally. I'm sure she had her reasons, and all I can do is move on. Originally Posted by gobblethisobelisk

That's just because of the use of the term "ask her out" was a little bit odd for the hobby is all. Typically people will just say something like "schedule an appointment/session", etc.

Try another provider - otherwise:

I would try a strip club that is an extras club or possibly a SD site like Seeking Arrangement. The hobby requires some investment - a stripper you get to know who you can do itc and otc with or a SD site gal hot to trot.

I would never put up with getting the runaround like that.

Do your research and just chalk this one up to a mistake on her part, any number of things could have happened. Just take a breath and move onto another solid provider with better communication skills... Good luck there are some good ones here and p411.

What you did wrong...since you asked...was to ask her out.

Just ask somebody else out.

Mind your language ... You probably used some terminology that lead her to conclude that your interest may have been more civie in nature and she was not interested. Move on, you'll learn the ropes.

Continue to download porn.

As you have Fancy as a reference I wouldnt think anyone would hesitate to give you a spin, or a suck or a fuck....what ever your lil heart or cock craves......Slurp!!

They have every right to change their mind.

Go see Puerto Rican Sandra...my first and a very sweet lady. Oh, and a knockout body, face, and attitude.

GTO, don't sweat making mistakes. Everyone does when they're starting out. The trick is to learn from them, or else you keep doing the same thing over and over hoping for a different outcome.

Once you've done this for a while, you'll start to notice a few things. One important thing you'll realize is that situations with a provider that start out badly rarely improve. If she's crappy at returning phone calls and e-mails, that's not going to get better. If she no-shows you, she's unlikely to suddenly become reliable.

So if you have trouble getting a response from a provider, don't sweat it. Just try someone else. There are a whole lot of choices.

Idiots don't get advice here...they get ridiculed...

Have a nice day...

We all made mistakes when we started out in this game. Sounds like you may have worded your request a bit incorrectly, and thus, got the cold shoulder. Just chalk it up to part of the learning curve and move on. There are plenty of ladies here who will gladly see you.