I'm saying that to be weary of whom
Originally Posted by tntangie
Freudian slip?
(Given the context, I just found that too funny to resist!)
How you come across is pretty damn important. For example, I'm at a local strip club and one particular young lady is just plain not making money tonight and she's getting anxious about it. In watching her approach it's pretty easy to see that she's desperate to make something because she's probably going to end up being lucky if she can pay the house fee.
I reminded her that men pick up on that like sharks smell blood in the water. And it's either going to lead to them leveraging it to get a much better deal or just plain a turn off.
In the long run, the best clients avoid that too. Yeah, I appreciate a good deal just like anyone else. But I do very much believe in a fair exchange. From a man's perspective, when a provider keeps her shit together and isn't acting desperate, it's a better experience.
As I've gotten more mature, I've really focused on the VALUE of what I'm spending my money on, not the cost. I'll happily spend a good amount of money on a product or experience I consider to be of high value.
For example, if I'm going to drop $100 or more on a meal, I expect a certain dining experience. Something special about the ambiance, the quality of the wait service and the quality of the food. I do not expect this from MacDonald's.
If I've seen a provider for some time and we have gotten to know each other a little bit, then yeah, I expect her to treat me with some hospitality. That just speaks to the value of the experience with her. If I'm seeing a new (to me) provider, I'd prefer you start out with better directions to your incall. After all, it's damned annoying to try to sort out where I'm going with a lot of useless chit-chat. And for the love of anything, please don't ask me to pick you up a soda or whatever just as I'm pulling up....I'm happy to grab you something on the way, just let me know in advance.