Would you ever marry your ATF?

If I married my ATF my wife might object.

yes! i have been head over heels for my atf since i met her. but, i also realize my atf only exists for an hour at a time. shes not real, shes a persona invented and designed to know and fullfil my every desire. shes a real life glamour shot.
i am crazy about my atf "jenna hobby" (just a name i pulled outta my ass). jenna looks amazing, has an awesome body, and bcd thats outta this world. her nails are always done, her hair is always perfect and her make up is always on point. she loves my jokes thinks im witty and to her im sexy as hell! she cant wait to take me inside her. jenna has never taken a shit in her whole life!!! but her whole life has been a series of 1 hr events with me.
now, the "real" jenna hobby ala Jennifer Vundercrotch (again, another name outta my ass) has her bad days, complains about work, doesnt always wanna fuck and may not particularly enjoy my company. she wakes up with morning breath. she has fucked up hair 1st thing in the morning, is a bitch till her 1st cup, and probably shit so bad she could knock a buzzard off an outhouse at 50yrds.
if shes a good provider, the chances of jenna hobby ever allowing me to meet jennifer vundercrotch will never happen. its a kinda clark kent/superman thing.
so yes is it possible to fall in love with her and wanna marry her. OF COURSE! just remember that your falling in love with a character and not a person you will ever meet. everytime i see her i fall in love all over again. all the way till she closes the door behind me as i leave. live in the moment, just know when the moment is over Originally Posted by knotty man

Wow, that was great. You make an excellent point.

Very few women find Prostitution to be a life of "Financial Freedom"... Most become chained to a lifestyle that does lasting emotional and physical damage to them as it sucks them in and makes it very difficult to ever escape. Originally Posted by Whispers

From the Escort side I can only imagine but have also read there is a fair amount of emotional baggage from making the decision to cross that line into prostitution. But there's a wide gambit of the level of baggage and violence from Streetwalker, to agency, to Independent, to elite.

From the Hobbiest side I have also read and been guilty of the most common type of prostitution customer as a user. Being self-centered, and simply wants what I considers to be their needs met. They see themselves as a respectable person, and works to protect that appearance. Users provide a large, safe, and steady income to Prostitution.

So I see it as two sides of the same coin and I don't think Escorts are the only ones with emotional issues. The snake eats its own tale so to speak.

But here on ECCIE I like to 'hope' from the mostly good spirited posts on both the hobbiest and escort sides that we all just enjoy fucking... and we each have our price.

I'm going to give an emphatic YES just to see how quickly this gets back to her....

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I'm going to give an emphatic YES just to see how quickly this gets back to her....

z Originally Posted by ztonk

Just told her.....


errr.... wait.... ooops.... I think you meant the OTHER ATF

I am sorry I donot understand.

You would marry your girlfriend if you had not wife?

Yes i would!!!
...she sucks like a hoover....

Would I marry my ATF?

For my "current ATF", the answer is definitely NO. She is 30-years my junior, and I think that I may be genuinely in love with her. She is young, beautiful, intelligent, scrupulously honest, and has a broad supportive network of family and friends. She also has had some success as an entrepreneur outside of the hobby. She can do much better; she deserves much better. Being her client is a good enough for me, because it allows me to be useful to her until she moves on to the next phase in her life.

My "all time ATF" is a Brazilian lady I saw once back in 2007. I suppose that US citizenship and English instruction, along with half of everything I own, might have been of value to her. That decision would have been much more difficult. She would be 30 now, 23 years my junior.

(Yeah, I have been drinking tonight.)

if she quits, why not!

I dated a provider after she retired. Met her while she was one. We did fall for each other, but it didn't work out.

Hell no!!!! Anyone that would consider that is not to smart...

But I can't ever not look past the fact that she spread her legs for just about anyone for whatever the price of admission was... Originally Posted by Whispers

Why not? Fuck it, i'm a hoe so who am i to hold a grudge on anyone's past sex life

I feel that only 2 responded honestly and the others agreed maybe out of fear that by not doing so there would be repercussions with their current ATF or potential one.

Can you honestly say that having a partner that had sex for money would be ok with you?? REALLY??

On the flipside, us guys get a better treatment if we pay for pussy. I bet that if before getting married we would confess that we hired hookers, the wedding would still go on.

This thread turned out to be an excercise in honesty!

You know, providers are just women with a different set of life experiences than most. If you love them then you love them. As I approach my second divorce then I'm probably the wrong person to ask about marriage, but I don't see why you couldn't marry an ex-hooker and live a perfectly happy and normal life. That they give up the game is beyond question, of course.

I'm going to give an emphatic YES just to see how quickly this gets back to her....

z Originally Posted by ztonk

Hell, you had barely touched the send key!!! I can hear her now! She would say, "I knew that!!", you lucky devil!!!


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