Again, it's his choice to stay or not, to review or not, just as it's yours to have him leave or not, or tell him you don't want a review, or not. What he chooses to do shouldn't concern anyone but him. Originally Posted by WakeuрGod, just fucking shoot me, stab me, kill me now, 'cause I have to kind of agree with Wakeup.
Damn, damn, damn, *&^%$#@! (Sound of Fancy gagging at the thought.)
Although we would rather that gentlemen leave if they are just going through the motions or playing mind games, if they don't, well, that's a risk we ladies take putting ourselves out there as a product. It is his right to write a review, but it should also be the lady's right to offer a rebuttal and/or explanation. WHY is it okay for the guys to trash us but we can't trash back without being called a hooktard or kooktard? If we ask the gentleman to leave once he gets there as we just don't think the chemical reactions will gel, we get called out for being bitchtards. Double standards are alive and well in the Hobby, but I guess that's one of the parameters to be expected, alas.
Anyway, I happen to be one of the few providers to believe that escorts/companions/hookers/courtesans don't really have the right to institute a "no review" policy. Sure, we can ask, but we can't expect our request to be honored, as it IS the gentleman's choice and out of our control. (Unless you're a Dom, then you can gag and whip him.)
We are human, we have feelings, we deserve respect, but we providers are merchandising ourselves, and anything that anyone spends money on should have a consumer reports database, and that's what reviews are, like it or not. It is also just an opinion with a conclusion likely to be overturned in the next review, especially if there is noticeable improvement in the product or the perceptions of the previous reviewer were warped for whatever reason.
This is a case where size matters. If a lady has a substantive history of positive reviews, a few negative ones should be taken with a grain of salt.