I wouldn't read too much into it. Could have just been a coincidence. Like one of the other mongers said, if all the studios start giving you the same excuses, then that might be the indicator that you've been blackballed.
But with that being said, I wonder if bookers keep notes on the guys (i.e. young, old, ethnicity, MSOG, well-endowed, etc.)?
Originally Posted by AspenCalifornia
Not sure about here but the Bay Area network DEFINITELY shared info especially when it came to referrals. If you were a good customer then it was all gravy. Helps to weed out the she shitbirds. The ladies share info as well. If you were really good or generous or if you were rough, unclean, or generally a dirtbag. You’d be out in the cold pretty quick. Pretty vanilla as far as my session habits go and I generally let the ladies take the lead and keep them in their comfort zone.
As for being blackballed, I’m in good standing with three other studios and haven’t seen any ladies from K-Fest yet so I would have no idea why I would have that status. In the end I’ll just work around the bullshit or take my business somewhere else. Had to deal with another batshit booker in San Ho. Most mongers (and some of her girls) couldn’t stand her but she had one of the best lineups in the bay so we had to deal with it..