Question for the ladies with SO's or Real world relationships

Are you saying that you can't separate regular sex from paid sex? You just prefer to get paid for sex period? Originally Posted by Mental AtrraXXXion

That's exactly what I got from it, all women here do the same and that's ok. Don't hate the player, Hate the game

The OP was looking for fantasy SB/Daddy responses not realistic in the RW by most men, he's in the perfect place to hear those

This came up ages ago on ASPD. There were a number of women who posted basically that they can fuck all the clients they want, but their man better not be fucking anyone but them.


If it weren't for double standards, some people wouldn't have any.




A more enlightened opinion is that sex is just physical, so as long as both partners are honest about who they're going to be fucking, then they can fuck whoever. Forming a romantic attachment with someone else would be considered cheating.


Of course, human nature means that we are NOT "enlightened."

That's exactly what I got from it, all women here do the same and that's ok. Don't hate the player, Hate the game

The OP was looking for fantasy SB/Daddy responses not realistic in the RW by most men, he's in the perfect place to hear those Originally Posted by BLM69

Not really. Bringing up the Sb probably wasn’t a good example. My question is as simple as if I’m a mechanic, I don’t want to come home from work and fix my car, if I’m a painter, I don’t want to come home from work and paint my kitchen. I was wondering if the ladies that fuck all day feel the same way. I fucked all day, I’m not in the mood to come home and fuck my SO.

Not really. Bringing up the Sb probably wasn’t a good example. My question is as simple as if I’m a mechanic, I don’t want to come home from work and fix my car, if I’m a painter, I don’t want to come home from work and paint my kitchen. I was wondering if the ladies that fuck all day feel the same way. I fucked all day, I’m not in the mood to come home and fuck my SO. Originally Posted by Massagejunkyie69

I'm sure some $ would motivate them to continue work at home, not sure what type of man would welcome his SO after getting stuffed with man meat/man gravy all day.

What would possibly you say to her? This is why it would never work out in the RW, unless you're into cleaning up? Once you said SB it was a hobby fantasy question

I dont fuck all day. Even on a busy day...it’s more likely that I sucked all day instead...

Would gladly go home and suck an SO if there was one...

Op you’re prolly right that you won’t get honest replies from other ladies ...something about having a bf or husband messes with a girls business for some reason ...

The only way it ever messed with my sex life was make it better by broadening my horizons.

The only way it ever messed with my sex life was make it better by broadening my horizons. Originally Posted by LadyAnastasia

How that work for you?

Why do any of you care if our "hobby" makes or breaks sex at home? It is really none of your business. Most of you guys are married and are saying a guy must not have feelings for his woman or only want her money to be able to be involved with a SW. Well, does that mean you do not truly love your wives because here you are? Not only are you engaging physically, but financially & quite a few get mentally and emotionally involved too with the same SW's you say probably are not in great RW relationships. Seem's to me most of you have zero idea which side of the fence you are on.

Why do any of you care if our "hobby" makes or breaks sex at home? It is really none of your business. Most of you guys are married and are saying a guy must not have feelings for his woman or only want her money to be able to be involved with a SW. Well, does that mean you do not truly love your wives because here you are? Not only are you engaging physically, but financially & quite a few get mentally and emotionally involved too with the same SW's you say probably are not in great RW relationships. Seem's to me most of you have zero idea which side of the fence you are on. Originally Posted by Kendall4U

Very well said....

So if you do have RW relationships while providing, does the guy get to play around too?

@Kim or Ana Originally Posted by Samhyde

I should fucking hope so!!

Why do any of you care if our "hobby" makes or breaks sex at home? It is really none of your business. Most of you guys are married and are saying a guy must not have feelings for his woman or only want her money to be able to be involved with a SW. Well, does that mean you do not truly love your wives because here you are? Not only are you engaging physically, but financially & quite a few get mentally and emotionally involved too with the same SW's you say probably are not in great RW relationships. Seem's to me most of you have zero idea which side of the fence you are on. Originally Posted by Kendall4U

I don't think he was meaning to intrude on people's lives in any particular providers case, just that he has a girl in the business and wanted some perspective on her thought process.

As for me falling in love with providers, I do it all the time, but I wouldn't leave my wife under any circumstances, so I guess I love her the most.

I think we should utilize the Muslim concept of multiple wives for those who can afford them. I could handle 4 wives, no problem.

Why do any of you care if our "hobby" makes or breaks sex at home? It is really none of your business. Most of you guys are married and are saying a guy must not have feelings for his woman or only want her money to be able to be involved with a SW. Well, does that mean you do not truly love your wives because here you are? Not only are you engaging physically, but financially & quite a few get mentally and emotionally involved too with the same SW's you say probably are not in great RW relationships. Seem's to me most of you have zero idea which side of the fence you are on. Originally Posted by Kendall4U

He just asked a question. Not to you specifically. If you don't want to answer it, don't, and none of us will even notice.

But I'm on your side with the rest of it. You can have a "I CAN'T HEAR YOU LALALALALALA" attitude toward your lady's working life and have a completely real and fulfilling relationship.

I don't get the mentality that it's okay to pay hundreds of dollars to fuck a provider, but if you marry one, suddenly that pussy is nasty.

Makes no sense to me.

I don't get the mentality that it's okay to pay hundreds of dollars to fuck a provider, but if you marry one, suddenly that pussy is nasty.

Makes no sense to me. Originally Posted by Samhyde

Makes perfect sense to me, you said marry ONE! that's a problem right there among other things. I want my cake and eat it too.

I don't get the mentality that it's okay to pay hundreds of dollars to fuck a provider, but if you marry one, suddenly that pussy is nasty.

Makes no sense to me. Originally Posted by Samhyde

It's not that the pussy's nasty. It's that most guys think they're being taken advantage of if other guys are fucking their girl. For this situation to work, you need a male unicorn who'll look the other way (or is turned on by the cuckold thing) and a provider unicorn who ISN'T just taking the poor sap for a ride.

Unfortunately, unicorns are hard to find. And even when you find one, it takes a while to figure out whether it's a real unicorn or just a donkey with a plunger stuck to its face. I've never had the opportunity to find out whether I'm a pretty, sparkly unicorn, because the handful of times I've tried being one, I find that my lady unicorn is just another donkey. Some donkey rides last longer than others, though.