Newbie with cold feet

I am a Newbie that is having a hard time pulling the trigger to nervous I guess anyone else had an issue with this and any suggestions I am older gentlemen 51 any help would be appreciated Originally Posted by macdaddy51

Im in the same boat. Newbie wise just nervous on all accounts . Hoping to pick a girl that will help get rid of that quickly. Im thinking Selena ,Hana or Angiexo . Originally Posted by champr199

macdaddy and champr,
well, you can just jump in w/out looking. but that's not the best recipe, imho.
i suggest you think about what kind of woman you want to consult with [age, hair, body], her location, her fees, and the activities you want to consult w/ her. there are so many women in the dfw area that surely there is at least one you will be interested in.

so, if you want to have a deliteful first experience, do your research.

if you have any questions, you can send me a private msg.
[if using a pc/notebook browser, move cursor over my name to the left, left click, and select "send a private msg"].

good luck and hope you have a deliteful first experience

...There isn't a lady here who won't make you feel welcome and comfortable from the moment she opens the door.

Read the reviews and find a lady who fits you. There are some great suggestions for starters. Originally Posted by OldGrump

well, i'd say most women providers here on eccie would make a newbie feel welcome and comfortable.
but i wouldnt say there isnt one who wont. i can think of a few :^)

ditto on the research suggestion.

Macdaddy 51,
I see you joined on Christmas day... I can't help anyone who would join a Hooker Board on the day of our Lord Originally Posted by Chung Tran

That didn't seem very helpful, Chung. Originally Posted by Mavs fan

i didnt notice macdddy's join date [nor champr's].
if i did and wanted to joke about it, i might have said ...
"noticed your join date. guess you didnt get a provider for christmas.
welcum aboard!!"

Book 2 experienced providers every week for a month to get your stride. Then its a walk in the park. Originally Posted by Bestman200600

BestMan i wouldnt mind that but doubt my mortgage company would allow

Rest easy Macdaddy......I am the king of pussies. Look at my join date and I am still too nervous to pull the trigger.

Crawl before you walk. Try a FBSM first. Lots of great ladies provide that service. Those jitters will disappear like a pizza at a weight watchers convention!!

Or---- get out while you still can!

These ladies do some the dangdest things. ( like bbbj, cim, daty, dato, and omg dfk). You will be sucked in to the lifestyle with only one way out and that's through bankruptcy!

But since I don't believe you will stop before starting, think about the attributes you are looking for in a provider, practice due diligence in your research, and then just do it.

I am fairly new...started with BNG with a well reviewed provider...not whom I am on this site to be that I really want to get with. However, being nervous too at first, chose abt 4 BNG's with providers that have a good review just to get my feet wet visiting the incall locations. After the 1st two visits...it gets much easier. Always study the incall location. Arrive early and scope out the incall location just to see whats around!

Good luck and get ready for a fun ride!!

Have to admit I am a little Jealous. Man, do I miss that overwhelming adrenaline rush waiting for appointment time, as well as in between getting room number and the door opening. Nothing quite like it. Heart beating, hands shaking, stomach churning, physical pressure everywhere. Time does not move. Don't get me wrong, I still get it, just isn't nearly as intense as it used to be.

Lucky....

Tons of great advice here. I'm still pretty new to hobbying myself although I've followed Eccie a while now. If you're planing on sticking around a while, P411 would be the best start. You could also try your luck in the Requests section. The jitters will come and go. But that's part of what the ladies do best, put you at ease.

my offer of assistance still stands.

Let him download porn.

One hundred percent of newbies who contacted me ended up sending me loooonnngggg never ending emails back and forth for a looooonnngggg time and then stopped. They just disappeared. Cold feet. So I stopped giving them a chance cause it's a waste of time. I'll just let someone else who's newbie friendly deal with them. When they are more experienced with good references, I will reconsider.

Thanks for the advice have scheduled my first for Monday

Macdaddy 51,
I see you joined on Christmas day... I can't help anyone who would join a Hooker Board on the day of our Lord Originally Posted by Chung Tran

Lol Chung,

Wow I wish there were more threads like this. I started the whole Eccie and P411 thing in San Antonio 3.5 years ago and I'm still leaning every time I get on the board.

Macdaddy 51,

There's a P411 function that allows you to put down your personal preference of activities and desired attires for the providers to see.

This is a function that I'm just recently learning how to use.

The Eccie chat room is pretty fun to be in as well if you have trouble sleeping at night.

I would say newbie party with some old timers to talk them through nervousness and then send me to the back with Jessica brn2bapornstar. That will get you over the hump! Lol

It took me six months to jump in and while not as active as most and I have two ATFs I see every once in a while and one isn't even member here. I made my first a 90 min session with newbie friendly and they made me feel very comfortable and relaxed. No rush, slow and steady and enjoyed my time.