Quid pro quo

In this case.... NO ONE ASKED TO BE REVIEWED!!!! REALLY... please read the original post thoroughly!!!
A conversation between a client and myself about men getting an ok but in turn bringing nothing to the table themselves. I do not condone holding out on OK's...I have given plenty. However if a guy trolls the board here to find info, only to book thru P411...I would think reviews would be a knowledgeable resource. This is a "im curious" not "this is my situation" post.

I realize eceryone on here is not a Mental Giant, I dont bitch about my clients... I have great rapport with my clients and everyone who has seen me will say I have no problem discussing an issue. But dont be fooled sir... its not just a one way street... do you think that the client gains nothing by seeing a provider? That we alone are the only benefactors from an appointment? Does the client not walk away feeling good, laid, pleased? I assure you my definitions of contributions are not whacked out!!!

Nah... lets just go someplace cool to eat and review the establishment. Originally Posted by Abigail (Source of JOY)

Outstanding idea...I'm hungry...and I know an awesome gelato place...come pick me up tonight? I don't drive after the street lights come on...

I realize eceryone on here is not a Mental Giant, I dont bitch about my clients... I have great rapport with my clients and everyone who has seen me will say I have no problem discussing an issue. But dont be fooled sir... its not just a one way street... do you think that the client gains nothing by seeing a provider? That we alone are the only benefactors from an appointment? Does the client not walk away feeling good, laid, pleased? I assure you my definitions of contributions are not whacked out!!! Originally Posted by Abigail (Source of JOY)

Oh, I do realize we get something of value for our money. Otherwise, we wouldn't part with our money. I just disagree with your statements that P411 clients aren't "contributing any" thing if they're not doing reviews. Unless a provider gives a client a discount in exchange for a review, the only contribution she is owed for her service is her fee.

If providing okays on P411 is too much of a burden for her, she doesn't need to use that very useful service.

Fair enough... that is what I was asking. For opinions and how others felt. I agree that OK's are for P411, and serve a purpose, it's absolutely an amazing screening asset. I certainly agree one is not a requirement of the other. I was just a little taken aback by the conversation and the attitude that was exuded.

Most often means a more or less equal exchange or substitution of goods or services.

Got me to thinking... Originally Posted by Abigail (Source of JOY)

It takes me 30 min or more to write my reviews as they contain a lot of details for my fellow hobbiests. I also email my word doc to the provider so she can actually read what I write

it takes you 10-15 SECONDS to hit the OK button.

Please explain to me why you believe 15 seconds of your time is "more or less equal exchange or substitute of goods or services."

BTW I write reviews for about 5-10% of my sessions. However, when a provider offers a deep discount with the agreement that a review follows shortly thereafter, I comply 100% of the time.

Abigail I totally understand where you coming from. Give me an ok. Give me an ok. Remember to give me an ok. Hay I need that ok. We had a great time give me an ok. Then you respond sure sorry was out of town. Hay please write a review. Nan I don't do that.
I'd be taken a back also.
Ok guys Understand now.

Good topic thanks for posting. I pretty much stopped writing reviews now. I used to review every session but after I passed 100 (on another board). I just got tired of trying to focus in the details during the session. Tattoos grooming eye color the pace of the action etc. That is a lot too focus on while getting a bj. I post now if it is a review special‚ if it is a really different type of session‚ if it is a bad session or if the lady asks me too and it was a really good session.

If it was a ho hum session and you ask I might decline because I don't want to sugarcoat things

I realize eceryone on here is not a Mental Giant, ...... But dont be fooled sir... its not just a one way street... do you think that the client gains nothing by seeing a provider? That we alone are the only benefactors from an appointment? Does the client not walk away feeling good, laid, pleased? I assure you my definitions of contributions are not whacked out!!! Originally Posted by Abigail (Source of JOY)

"not a Mental Giant" ..... "trolls" ....

From one trolling Mental Midget to another ....

..... "public relations" ... aka "customer relations" ...

There is no doubt that you consider a "review" and an "ok" as ... quid pro quo!

And all my time of "trolling" on this and other "boards" (one now gone) ... I thought the reviews were for the hobbyists .... and the "OKs" on P411 were for the providers..... and ...
I thought the $$ was for the providers time and inconvenience of satsifying a CUSTOMER.

I believe if you've seen a client via P411 you are obligated to give him an OK,
unless in some way he proved himself to be an ass and in that case you
need to inform P411 what happened w/the client. If the client reports that he has
asked you to give him an OK and you refuse you will be in trouble w/P411 your account
may get revoked.

It's really simple if you play in the P411 sandbox you play by the P411 rules.

The client does not have to hound you every day for an OK, all he
has to do is report and let P411 know you are not willing to give him
an OK and P411 will handle you for him.


Really Abigail it does seem as if you are asking for a review in return of giving a client an OK
atleast it's the way i'm reading and i'm reading from left to right.
Why don't you just give the guy an Ok? He's paying P411 for a service the same way he paid you, right?


And by the way asking for a review is like asking for a tip it's very tacky IMO Originally Posted by Seeking ~P

Hey how about that a gal who gets it.

Yet another fucktard who just aint getting it.....NO ONE ASKED FOR A REVIEW!!!!!!!!!!

Y'all still don't understand.
I explain it as elementary as possible.

Well damn, Sorry I didn't include you in my last review.
Maybe next time.

Wait....Are you asking for a review??? I'm confused.

Well damn, Sorry I didn't include you in my last review.
Maybe next time.

Wait....Are you asking for a review??? I'm confused. Originally Posted by boardman

Don't tease or lie... you (and everyone else) know that you only do reviews on yourself!!!!

Yet another fucktard who just aint getting it.....NO ONE ASKED FOR A REVIEW!!!!!!!!!! Originally Posted by Abigail (Source of JOY)

So much hostility and name calling on this thread. If you don't want people's opinions, don't start a fucking thread asking for their opinions. Yeah, I know, you claim you didn't ask for a review, but your posts make your feelings pretty clear: clients who ask for okays but don't do reviews are non-contributing trolls. Does that sum it up?