PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT FOR THE WIVES

This is a Public Service Announcement for the wives, girlfriends, and future exes of the members of the hobby.

You are now discovering that your soon to be ex husband/boyfriend has been playing around with others. I know you will be hurt by this discovery. You will lash out at the ladies of icky and other SHMBs. You will be calling the them cumsluts, whores, tramps, harlots, jezebels, etc.

There is really no need for that behavior. You need to focus your attention on you. What are you going to do? How are you going to confront your soon to be ex? Are you willing to let him weasel out of the mess "he" created? Why did this happen? How did this happen?

Let us focus on the last two questions: Why and How. Even the best relationships are difficult to maintain over the years with both parties contributing. But things happen. Things change.

If you look in the mirror a lot of it comes back to you. If you played the role of cumslut, whore, tramp, etc in your relationship and kept your soon to be ex sated you would not be looking here. Had you had sucked and fucked him several times a week, and I am not talking about just laying there. But actually meet his needs ... Suck his cock with meaning. Get involved in fucking his brains out. Perform BBCR, or occasionally engage in ass play. Your soon to be ex will be drained. He will not have the desire, or energy, to chase some strange. Oh his eyes will wander ... But his pecker will stay at home and have some more home cooking.

So ladies keep the fire burning at home. Up your game. Or welcome to the hobby and be hurt over discovering your soon to be ex has been playing around. It really is up to you. Learn the hard lessons now and remember them the next time you get in a relationship.

Now if you took care of your end of the deal and the soon to be ex still getting strange ... then that is on him and you should dump his dumb ass.

Now show your taint. Originally Posted by pyramider

you should write that to the newspaper's letters to the editor. it might raise eyebrows if it gets published.

I also saw it!

Sad!!!! but it is what it is

http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=511240

Fucking Bullshit. Originally Posted by IIFFOFRDB

Care to explain?

I'll reitterate: while I agree with the OP's message, I believe the vast majority here already understand that.

Now why do you believe that is BS?

And why the need to be so hostile in your comment? Try expressing your thoughts with a bit more civility--it"s good gor the soul.

Care to explain?

I'll reitterate: while I agree with the OP's message, I believe the vast majority here already understand that.
Originally Posted by Old-T

This PSA was not written for the members of the hobby. It was written for the pissed off wives, SOs, etc.

woohoooooo great post!

This PSA was not written for the members of the hobby. It was written for the pissed off wives, SOs, etc. Originally Posted by pyramider

It should be sticky'd to the home page....make it easy to find for those so angry/hurt that they can't see straight....

You know, one of my last clients for massage told me he came to see and touch my boobs. Why? Because he doesnt have sex with his wife anymore and wanted to just touch them. So I asked why? He said he isnt attracted to her after she had breast cancer and had them removed. WTF, I told him what an asshole he was. She SURVIVED Cancer! I can only imagine how lonely and unwanted she feels.

So its not always the wife, sometimes the hobbyist is nothing but a piece of shit asshole! I told him I lost interest and he could leave. Originally Posted by kymberlane

Fucktards will be fucktards.

Mastectomies are psychologically tough on the women and the husbands. They feel less than womanly. He should still love her and care for her. But during the aftermath who is playing with his pecker? I would wager not her. Again, she should not be surprised when after full recovery he goes to a provider. Isn't part of being wanted is being sexy? A woman can still be sexy with no boobs, or without extremities.

Now as far as seeing and copping a feel of your boobs ... Who would not want a look and squeeze?

Great post. I would probably still be married if my wife didn't turn into an iceberg. Originally Posted by FlectiNonFrangi

Ladies, if you wonder why your man seeks some strange, look in the mirror. Tons of reviews on this and other sites constantly mention guys seeking blowjobs because even though the wife enjoys the DATY, she refuses to provide a good oral pleasure to the man; or she has no allure or interest in various positions; or she has become totally frigid. And as for it being a provider, the wife should be considering the fact that covered activities from providers very often are much safer than the bar pickup / affair where safety measures may be overlooked.

This PSA was not written for the members of the hobby. It was written for the pissed off wives, SOs, etc. Originally Posted by pyramider

I agree and I understand. I just doubt there are too many of them here--thus my comment. I have no problem with the message.

Basicly I am agreeing with Dilbert's thought.

it's always the wife's fault when the guy cheats. that's rich. some guys would cheat even if they had a porn star at home, but it's a nice way to justify it by blaming the wife. if some guys would not have gained 60 lbs and still washed their ass, maybe the wife would fuck him. it's not someone else's responsibilty that you can't control your actions. simple solution. be in an open relationship.

it's always the wife's fault when the guy cheats. that's rich. some guys would cheat even if they had a porn star at home, but it's a nice way to justify it by blaming the wife. if some guys would not have gained 60 lbs and still washed their ass, maybe the wife would fuck him. it's not someone else's responsibilty that you can't control your actions. simple solution. be in an open relationship. Originally Posted by Massage By Mandy

Many, many different situations...
I've gained 20 pounds since my fighting weight in college, wash my ass every day and my ex still did not enjoy/allow sex. A whopping 2-3 times per year and even that was atrocious. I never cheated on her.
Only hobbied since the divorce. Second wife cheated on me. Adios to her too.

it's always the wife's fault when the guy cheats. that's rich. some guys would cheat even if they had a porn star at home, but it's a nice way to justify it by blaming the wife. if some guys would not have gained 60 lbs and still washed their ass, maybe the wife would fuck him. it's not someone else's responsibilty that you can't control your actions. simple solution. be in an open relationship. Originally Posted by Massage By Mandy

Below is a quote directly from the original post:

"Now if you took care of your end of the deal and the soon to be ex still getting strange ... then that is on him and you should dump his dumb ass."

Fucktards will be fucktards.

Its not always the woman's fault. Its the man's choice to cheat. But she needs to look squarely in the mirror and see how this occurred. Hindsight being 20/20, one should be able to see where the problem began. Either he is a complete douche bag or she should have been more accommodating.

It should be sticky'd to the home page....make it easy to find for those so angry/hurt that they can't see straight.... Originally Posted by Sisyphus

I would be sticky'd? Oolala, I probably should feel dirty ...

No doubt, if the woman kept the gun empty.
I wouldnt be able to shoot at anything.
Heck the fact that I couldnt take aim
if I wanted would be potentially embarassing
enough to keep me out of the trenches.

A tebowmas bump ...