Hobbyist burnout

I went through a do it all the the time phase and now I guess I am in a very selective phase. I just don't like all the bullshit associated with it anymore. Not to mention it is getting too expensive as the donations are going up all the time.

I too have been fighting burn out and took a good while off. Just as I was getting back, my ol' lady busted me big time. That will put a dent in your plans. She now watches me and the money like a hawk.

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After trial and error, I have discovered that the best sessions I've had are with older ladies (30s-40s). More than likely they are no longer tight models, but what they lack in that area they tend to more than make up for in the services offered. Thank you ladies. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

My life experience is probably completely the exception rather than the rule. I was never sexually intimate until my late 20s. Don't get me wrong. I had plenty of "dates" with the Playmate of the Month, or pornos, or lap dances from the local strip club. I just never "did it" until later in life. Therefore, I missed out fooling around in high school or "free love" with a cute co-ed. When I first started "doing it", all of my encounters were with providers-- mostly of the younger, hotter, tighter type. After about an 8 year break in the hobby, I was caught up in the allure once again. Upon returning, my first session was with a girl between 18 or 20. She got me hooked again but since then sessions have seen to be lacking. It is not the providers' fault. The sex has been great, but I always end up with a feeling of emptiness/buyers remorse. I suppose my expectations are too high and a combination of factors just make the sessions to be less than what I was hoping for. Charles, not a knock on older ladies, but the providers in their 30s to 40s just don't do it for me. Sure I've seen several, but these providers are my age, and I've had disappointment with these providers-- probably more so. I just feel like I'm getting burned out. Maybe it is time for another break.

I think I would get burnout from the board before I would the hobby. It's interesting when I reflect on things. I like certain providers for certain things. One is great at gfe and another at pse. Then one has a fantastic personality and can do just about anything.

I think my break is soon to come but it won't be from hobbying, more or less it will be from certain forums or board al together. Just lurk for a while until I feel comfortable coming back.