Can't Cum??

I would tell him to go slower and not try to "pound away." I've found it much easier to go when I am moving slower particularly in MISH. The combination of seeing her submissive body, kissing, and slow pumps...No matter what cup I'm going for will speed up the process.

It isn't you - it's just one of those things. Originally Posted by rn_sweetie

I absolutely agree. Although I am MUCH older than your friend, I sometimes have that problem. In fact, just last night I was with two of the hottest women imaginable in a session right out of a porn flick. I did finally cum by taking matters into my own hand, but with all the other activities going on it seemed stupid to have to resort to that. Why did I have that problem? Beats the hell out of me. Just happens sometimes.

The issue can also be drug related, legal drugs that is, (maybe the other kind too, couldn't say). You said he is healthy, but blood pressure meds can cause issues. Also, viagra and simular meds can actually make finishing more time consuming.

The issue can also be drug related, legal drugs that is, (maybe the other kind too, couldn't say). You said he is healthy, but blood pressure meds can cause issues. Also, viagra and simular meds can actually make finishing more time consuming. Originally Posted by Mr Clean

great point...SSRIs zoloft...paxcil..that class for depression will make it difficult to cum...in fact they list it as a side effect...delayed orgasm.

gulp, but its the alcohol i swear

great point...SSRIs zoloft...paxcil..that class for depression will make it difficult to cum...in fact they list it as a side effect...delayed orgasm. Originally Posted by cuckold4u

Good point. I was on Zoloft at one time and it was definitely a problem.

But how many times did he make you cum?

Maybe you should ask him what turn him on the most...role play...a certain way to touch him...a certain position...maybe the way you talk etc. Try something different and see if there is any results.

It is true - guys who masterbate often tend to take longer. And, the one who do it often and don't have a partner on a regular basis have the most difficult time. Originally Posted by rn_sweetie

Totally agree since that mostly describes me (when I was hobbying). But the only difference with me was that I chose not to cum right away (during my 2+ hour sessions) since it gave me a sensation of having multiple-like orgasms. And also cuz I was (am) a deviant freak in the sheets.

Totally agree since that mostly describes me (when I was hobbying). But the only difference with me was that I chose not to cum right away (during my 2+ hour sessions) since it gave me a sensation of having multiple-like orgasms. And also cuz I was (am) a deviant freak in the sheets. Originally Posted by Neotek

Not to mention, your cock is so big it takes an hour for the cum to travel from your balls to the head of your penis!!

Two points:

1. This is a common side effect of Viagra. You hold back at first and then it's a challenge to regain the required sensitivity.

2. It becomes a mental problem. You can help by getting his mind off of the physical challenge and back into the gutter.

L4L.

I have this issue. I've only climaxed with one provider. I always tell them about my situation so they do not get frustrated.

I am a chronic masterbator, once a day. Once you get use to your hand, a woman can never feel the same way. I've found there are only three positions that can generate the right friction at the right spot. Heck, even when I masterbate, it can take me over an hour if I don't focus on the end result. This has caused me to rub myself raw a few times over the years.

It's also a little mental for me too. I will focus on my partner to the exclusion of me. For me, I get off on making her squirm. My O does not do anything for me to be honest. It's always the journey.

Have your friend not touch himself for a week with no sex either. It helps me, but I usually can't wait that long. lol

I have this issue. I've only climaxed with one provider. I always tell them about my situation so they do not get frustrated.

I am a chronic masterbator, once a day. Once you get use to your hand, a woman can never feel the same way. I've found there are only three positions that can generate the right friction at the right spot. Heck, even when I masterbate, it can take me over an hour if I don't focus on the end result. This has caused me to rub myself raw a few times over the years.

It's also a little mental for me too. I will focus on my partner to the exclusion of me. For me, I get off on making her squirm. My O does not do anything for me to be honest. It's always the journey.

Have your friend not touch himself for a week with no sex either. It helps me, but I usually can't wait that long. lol Originally Posted by Jobe0111

WHY I LOVE MY HAND
1. is always ready when i am
2. requires little foreplay
3. never says...just a little longer
4. i never have to ask...was it good for you
5. easy to shop for...a manicure is all that is needed
6. we always cum at the same time
7. never complains about the 'wet spot"
8. aunt flow never visits
9. the only concerns with yeast are related to baking bread
10. LOL...my hand is good...a woman and her p**sy are PRICELESS

Everyone has stated some true reasons here, but my thoughts are:
1. Phsychological ... the mind is so powerful that can prevent you from having an erection or being hard by just looking and cumming in just a few minutes.
When I am angry at my SO, I cant have an erection, and I can say that she is a gorgeous girl ... If I have an appointment with someone, lets say you Vixen, I can wake up hard just thinking about the fun to come .... BTW I hope we really meet soon babe.

2. Hormones or health issues ... he might have low testosterone levels or high blood pressure, or prostate enlargement (yes at this young age) ... maybe too much and frequent masterbation ...

3. Maybe he is taking natural enhancers like Stiff Nights that I read that gives you an erection but prevents you from cumming ... or Viagra, etc.

4. The worst case scenario is that he is not really interested in you and that would suck ... SO thinks I have some health issue but the truth is that I've been grumpy and indifferent towards her for she has been acting bitchy ... all SO's are like this? ... He He

Well ... my .02
PM me babe ... Ill make you happy

I have had the opposite experience from most here, in that when I was in a situation where Rosie was all I had, I lost the ability to last for any length of time.

There's no reason to prolong masturbation, so I'd hit the bell, and move on with my day, or night. After that pattern was repeated long enough, I lost the ability to last any length of time. It took a very understanding girlfriend, and a long time, before I could keep my end up consistently. It still taps me on the shoulder every once in a while. Thank you to every provider that is OK with MSOG!
If your friend can rub one out consistently the problem is in his head. Yes, you can concentrate to hard. I understand many women are the same way. How do they solve the problem? All I know is, every woman is different.