things that gets under ur skin

^^Why yes indeed MB, muchas gracias! Originally Posted by ramblinman69

De nada

The onslaught of constant negativity by the same small group of posters, essentially ruining what is supposed to be a fun board experience for the majority of the hobbyists & providers here.

The constant disrespect for our Mods, who graciously volunteer their time, and shouldn't have to dedicate it to babysitting a bunch of overly aggressive, negative trouble-makers.

Clueless idiots who fill up a provider's inbox in a sorry attempt to use that provider as a liaison for contact with a retired provider - a retired provider who clearly doesn't want anything to do with them... and decides to conveniently retract a good review in retaliation for not getting his way with the retired provider.

In other words, baby drama. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

So you don't think you have anything to do with the drama that surrounds you? Let's be real, no bullshit. Honestly, my first thought when reading your post, was that it sounded like the dictator of some banana republic who just wishes the masses would shut up and be subservient, know their place, etc. As if we can't speak our mind. The world isn't always happy. Where's the board constitution that says it's supposed to be happy here? As for the mods, sometimes they have a bit of an attitude and too much zeal in carrying out their duties. It makes for a contentious, us against them dynamic. Respect is something you earn. Being a knob doesn't exactly make people want to respect you.

Things that get under my skin thread. ......people who talk so much negativity ..... I think this is on topic

Like this?



Or this?

Originally Posted by MaryBeth

Ummmm nice pic mb.... wish I was the toy

The onslaught of constant negativity by the same small group of posters. Pot... Kettle.. Black

The constant disrespect for our Mods, who graciously volunteer their time, and shouldn't have to dedicate it to babysitting a bunch of overly aggressive, negative trouble-makers. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

People who are ass kissers or suck ups..

1. Hagglers, if you want a bargain there are plenty of other girls who offer specials, I'm not one of them!
2. Providers that give references, but wait hours to respond or days...
3. Guys who bash me for not being GFE, so fucking annoying, it will not change anything! I will still do what I want to do with no complaints

1. Hagglers, if you want a bargain there are plenty of other girls who offer specials, I'm not one of them!
2. Providers that give references, but wait hours to respond or days...
3. Guys who bash me for not being GFE, so fucking annoying, it will not change anything! I will still do what I want to do.
Originally Posted by BabyDallass

Well said

1. Hagglers, if you want a bargain there are plenty of other girls who offer specials, I'm not one of them!
2. Providers that give references, but wait hours to respond or days...
3. Guys who bash me for not being GFE, so fucking annoying, it will not change anything! I will still do what I want to do with no complaints
Originally Posted by BabyDallass

Lol yes!

The lack of taint being posted gets under my skin. Taint does not violate the 263 rules/guidelines. Taint is wholesomeness.

1. Hagglers, if you want a bargain there are plenty of other girls who offer specials, I'm not one of them!
2. Providers that give references, but wait hours to respond or days...
3. Guys who bash me for not being GFE, so fucking annoying, it will not change anything! I will still do what I want to do with no complaints
Originally Posted by BabyDallass

You have to understand its a dealbreaker for some guys. Respect flows both ways.

I am going to take a big risk being one of the newer people on here and talk about what gets under my skin. When I first got on this site I enjoyed being able to get on the forums and read about fun frivolous things related to the hobby. I looked forward to going to the coed discussions and actually reading about ways to be a better provider. It seems lately that everytime I get on here , on any thread, it is the same group of people talking about the same negative things. I haven't been around long enough to know the history or what's going on and I really don't want to know. Lets get back to having fun and enjoying ourselves!!!!!!!

The community is supposed to be about looking out for each other. There are people who's sole purpose here is to stir up shit and draw attention to themselves. When people have agendas, there's no reason to trust them.

Most providers don't post because of the constant shitstorm.

Who needs it?

I am going to take a big risk being one of the newer people on here and talk about what gets under my skin. When I first got on this site I enjoyed being able to get on the forums and read about fun frivolous things related to the hobby. I looked forward to going to the coed discussions and actually reading about ways to be a better provider. It seems lately that everytime I get on here , on any thread, it is the same group of people talking about the same negative things. I haven't been around long enough to know the history or what's going on and I really don't want to know. Lets get back to having fun and enjoying ourselves!!!!!!! Originally Posted by Sweet Casey

I agree with you on this .... a song comes to mind "why can't we be friends"

You have to understand its a dealbreaker for some guys. Respect flows both ways. Originally Posted by BeardFist McFistBeard

I do understand, so what's your point? This is a thread about what gets under our skin, I listed a few that gets under mine. I see now why more than half of are providers and hobbiest don't post anymore. So sad, this is supposed to be fun!!! What the fuck!?

The onslaught of constant negativity by the same small group of posters, essentially ruining what is supposed to be a fun board experience for the majority of the hobbyists & providers here. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

I agree with this. One board I was on had a fight club. If a thread got out of hand it was exiled to the fight club. Or you could start a thread in the fight club. It was only moderately successful in keeping down the personal attacks.