I've received several unsolicited texts and private messages this month from providers. I can understand slubby's frustration because they can be annoying at times but come on man, have some empathy for these ladies. They're not sending these messages or starting threADs for fun. Their livelihood depends on it.Maybe during these ROUGH TIMES they can get a job and realize some of their rates are ridiculous.
What's mildly irritating for us (unsolicited messages, threADS etc.) is deadly serious for them. They have bills to pay, hungry mouths to feed, and less business because of the new laws & the changes to this website. They have to hustle now so they can survive...so let them hustle. No one is forcing you to meet them. Originally Posted by VeryClean
I've received several unsolicited texts and private messages this month from providers. I can understand slubby's frustration because they can be annoying at times but come on man, have some empathy for these ladies. They're not sending these messages or starting threADs for fun. Their livelihood depends on it. Originally Posted by VeryCleanthat's how I see it, but I still have zero unsolicited texts from Providers. maybe I have been blackballed in the Powder Room for years?
that's how I see it, but I still have zero unsolicited texts from Providers. maybe I have been blackballed in the Powder Room for years?3) you used math in your test.
I'm going to conduct a little test, FWIW.. the first lady that PM's me will get an automatic 30% bump, over my "normal" consideration for her services. that is, if I had her at, say, a 40% chance of seeing, that will jump to 70%.
if I get nothing, I know one of two things: (1) I am actually Persona Non Grata, or (2) it is so bad ladies aren't reading this thread Originally Posted by Chung Tran
that's how I see it, but I still have zero unsolicited texts from Providers. maybe I have been blackballed in the Powder Room for years?That's a very interesting test...please let us know the results after you're done.
I'm going to conduct a little test, FWIW.. the first lady that PM's me will get an automatic 30% bump, over my "normal" consideration for her services. that is, if I had her at, say, a 40% chance of seeing, that will jump to 70%.
if I get nothing, I know one of two things: (1) I am actually Persona Non Grata, or (2) it is so bad ladies aren't reading this thread Originally Posted by Chung Tran
I hadn't really thought about PM'ing guys in place of ads but now that I see some of you guys are offended that you HAVEN'T been PM'ed I may have to change my strategy a bit... LOL!I can see both sides, I don't mind pm's if they have a personal touch and specials, I do mind AD type shooting for the clouds rates.
But yes RTM is a little harsh you're not being harassed it's nothing different than the emails i get EVERY DAY from target hilton southwest airlines etc regarding sales and specials. I just ignore it if it doesn't interest me??? Same concept. It's not like she's showing up at your house or harassing you, that's literally the purpose of this site. If we could all be kind to each other this world would be a much easier place to live in. Originally Posted by AshleyKay of Dallas