Selfie vs Pro

I am attracted to real women not Photoshop. So selfies get my attention first.

is that most ladies can in fact AFFORD a photo shoot. Why they don't choose to get pro pics is beyond me. They mis-manage their money or maybe are pimped. But to say most girls can't afford it is wrong. It's our business to be sexy, have new photos... Photo shoots arent a luxury they are maintenance. Like hair and nails. Should always be accounted for in a "escort budget" Originally Posted by britneyboobiesxoxo

Beautiful words.

Beautiful.

I like selfies, pro shots look really nice and great pics but the woman i show up to and see is not the same woman, in person she has blemishes that were photoshopped, in pics she was more tan than when I show up, jewelry and complete fantasy is disappointing. I have not shown up to see an escort that has pro photos and said she hotter than her pics, she is not, she is less appealing. I have shown up after seeing selfish and said she is hotter than her pics, no disappointment but added fun.

Photos at a $50,000 wedding.
The bride's attendants were beautiful and the groom and his groomsmen were equally as handsome. All anticipating the grand entrance of the bride. The music blares and the bride appears with her father in arm. Before they start down the aisle they turn to each other for one remaining tearful glimpse. As they hold their emotions back, she takes her hand away from the bouquet as Dad's hand leaves his side. They reach out in front of themselves, they turn them heads to look FLASH FLASH .... Cell phones have captured the tender moment forever.

A picture paints a thousand words.
Do you want it to say "Uh here I am, here I am ......" until it's finally done. Or, do you want it to say "I am here for you. I open myself to you. Please caress my soft skin, slip your hand in and squeeze my hard nipple that you can barely see through my sheer blouse.. " the thousand words continue with every mounting excitement.. " until you reach your ultimate satisfaction."

Most ladies cannot afford the cost, and time, to have professional photos done on a regular basis. Plus, as nice as some professional may be the ladies are often critized for things not being visible and Photoshopping. Originally Posted by pyramider

well said...My pics are all done with a cellphone..they may not be perfect or professional,but they all show me in a "realistic" light..I CAN afford it and I have had professional pics done before and found them to be "too made up looking"....As long as they are tasteful,it should be ok..

I am attracted to real women not Photoshop. So selfies get my attention first. Originally Posted by OldGent

I agree. I'll take a selfie over pro pics any day. I've never seen a provider who look better than her professional / Photoshop pics. All a provider need to do is invest in some inexpensive studio lights if they are taking pics inside and a tripod if they don't have someone to take them. There is no need to waste money on Professional pics.

It's much deeper than that, Poppy.



Selfies shouldn't be the norm on a board that fancies itself above the likes of BP. Selfie = BP. Same same, as far as I'm concerned. I keep seeing everybody talk about how we should STFOBP, yet the ads read like BP and the pics look like BP.

Tell me, what's the real distinction between Eccie and BP right now?

Girls come here from BP using the same pics from before. There's no step up, because there's a love affair with selfies.

Explain to me again how pics of less quality are 'better' than pics of better quality. Originally Posted by Randall Creed

Now we have a 3rd issue. ECCIE = BP.

If the ads read like BP, and the pics are professional, would that be better? Wait... isn't that what BP does anyway? Fake professional pics with low quality text.

The difference between ECCIE & BP is that I can get info about the woman here. BP is just the ad, pics, & contact. Here I can ask around, read reviews and posts, read stickies that'll help me make the right decision, and see if she posts anything more than ads. I can learn about her before I decide. And if I decide to take the plunge w/o anything more than her ad, that's on me.

The quality issue is one of definition. Of course a professional shoot is better techinical quality than a cell pic. I think people who like selfies are saying that a selfie is usually taken spontaneously, catching the person in a "real" moment. Now selfies taken in the reflection of a bathroom mirror don't do much. But a selfie taken at Mt. Rushmore or out on the town, shows more of the personality. Those "real" moments are what some say make selfies better (IMO).

If the selfies were taken with a real camera, would that be better techical quality than a professional shoot using a cell? Probably, but definitely not better artistically. (I will give a caveat to Megan Love who shoots herself very professionally & artistically)

The ECCIE = BP issue is an interesting one, but I think selfies are more of a symptom, not a primary cause.

GREAT THREAD!!!!!!!!!!!!


If you take selfies...don't do this! lol

DR .... You're the exception that proves about any rule. I joined ECCIE 11/03/15. I didn't start "joining in" until late Nov. It didn't take too long to figure out that that you and a few are distinctly in charge of yourselves. As far as pics go, your mindset jumps out. And your posts confirm. You need to trade mark your ass.

Stop it.

... rant, rant, rant ...

So, for crying out loud, please knock it off with this nonsense about selfies being better than pro. Originally Posted by Randall Creed

Does anyone else see any connection between this cri de couer and the OP's signature ("Sexy Photography. Let's go HALF on a showcase!")?

No, irony's not dead.

Does anyone else see any connection between this cri de couer and the OP's signature ("Sexy Photography. Let's go HALF on a showcase!")?

No, irony's not dead. Originally Posted by James1588

Hilarious! Yes, saw it right away and almost dismissed the thread, but was having too much fun reading the responses! !

Does anyone else see any connection between this cri de couer and the OP's signature ("Sexy Photography. Let's go HALF on a showcase!")?

No, irony's not dead. Originally Posted by James1588

I stand by my earlier point that hot women want to show off their hot bodies.

Not all that hot women look for ways to take 'strategic' selfies.

There's no irony at all in my stance. I'm just trying to keep the quality high on Eccie. Well, I'm trying to GET it there, because, selfies have become the norm. Sure, some of them are done well, but many of them are not.

In another thread, reviews are becoming an...inconvenience, too. On a REVIEW board, reviews are losing steam. Yeah.

Maybe I'm the only one with any foresight around here. I'm inclined to think that this board won't even be recognizable a year or so from now.

well said...My pics are all done with a cellphone..they may not be perfect or professional,but they all show me in a "realistic" light..I CAN afford it and I have had professional pics done before and found them to be "too made up looking"....As long as they are tasteful,it should be ok.. Originally Posted by DallasRain

I agree. I will probably get pro pics at some point but I believe the selfie captures the true me.

... Maybe I'm the only one with any foresight around here. I'm inclined to think that this board won't even be recognizable a year or so from now. Originally Posted by Randall Creed

Well, let's check out that amazing foresight. In detail, what will the board look like, a year "or so" from now?

This board is for advertising, was not really created for photographic advertising but they allow it. No one here gives a rat's ass about what another man's idea of quality is in women or how to advertise sex services. In business we all advertise some of those methods work better than others and each of us has to decide what method works best for each of us. This method appears to not be working so well for you. Move on to your next method. As stated, I prefer selfies some one else may prefer pro shots but does not seem to be the majority. Pro shots in this area disgust me. Just knowing how low each person has gone to do those shots is big turn off, but I am unusual here as I don't like swapping of services and don't ever do it even though I have been offered.