I personally have had all I can stand of AT6texan. He has misrepresented me and dogged me all over this board making false accusations about me. He claims to have met me, yet out of 28 reviews, not a one of them is on me. I think he has me mistaken. The lies he has stated about me have not only hurt my feelings immensely, they have caused many would'be clients to not come to see me. I am sick and tired of it. I am publicly declaring a challenge to this hater. Come to my door one time...or I will be happy to meet you anywhere you so choose. Afterwards I want a public apology on this board for all the horrible and hateful atrocities you have perpetuated against me. If you are unable to meet my challenge I invite you to henceforth Shut The Fuck Up. Personally I think he has a hidden agenda to ruin my reputation. I admit, it is impossible to get along with everybody but the majority of my reviews are very positive. So, there you go AT6texan...let's see what kind of a man you are. Originally Posted by merciannaYou post this thread, yet you have this in your signature?
Sorry your having to deal with what sounds like someone obsessed with you Merc, has ignoring not worked?Only one person is acting obsessed right now, and it ain't him.
I would think meeting someone that has caused you so much grief would be the last thing you would want to do and a possible safety issue.
The best thing you could do is continue on, ignore this type of behavior, and let your reviews speak for you for your proof
Good Luck sweetie Originally Posted by Sweet N Little
Only one person is acting obsessed right now, and it ain't him.
And, assuming you are right and he is lying, might I share the rules of the internet. Pay particular attention to rules 14 and 19. Originally Posted by Fort Worth Punk
Sorry your having to deal with what sounds like someone obsessed with you Merc, has ignoring not worked?+1 well said!!
I would think meeting someone that has caused you so much grief would be the last thing you would want to do and a possible safety issue.
The best thing you could do is continue on, ignore this type of behavior, and let your reviews speak for you for your proof
Good Luck sweetie Originally Posted by Sweet N Little
Accuses me of self reviews even came up with the grand idea that I am actually a "mother-daughter" team, even if it were true, I wouldn't let him get away with insulting my mother the way he has insulted me. Originally Posted by merciannaActually, this isn't true. He was saying, sarcastically I might add, that unless you were in fact a "mother-daughter" team, there was no way your pictures were representative of your actual appearance. Clearly he believes you look older in person than your pics and previous statements indicate. I'm not taking sides, just pointing out something for clarification purposes.
He's written 28 reviews, claims to have had a horrid session with me, yet while he can voice his opinion of me all over the board...failed to write a review. I don't recall the displeasure of his company and if he is convinced in what he believes he saw...then he must have me confused with someone else. Originally Posted by merciannaJust because he hasn't reviewed you doesn't mean he hasn't seen you. If I "hobbied" I would NEVER let the provider know what my handle was. There would be just too much to lose if that loose end ever became discovered. Additionally, I don't see where he has reviewed ANYONE and given them a "no" recommendation. That might just be how he chooses to roll. Again, not attacking you, just pointing out something for clarification purposes.
It will only prove him wrong! I am who I claim to be not a day older or younger. My pictures are legitimate representations of how I look. Life is stressful enough without someone lying on me. Originally Posted by merciannaYou've admittedly lied about your age in the past. In early 2011, many reviewers walked away from their session with you having the distinct impression you were precisely 36. By mid 2011, you were marketting yourself as 38 and by the end of the year you had in fact admitted to turning 40 on December 2011. You can see by this chain of events how someone with a bone to pick would just keep on chewing. Again, not attacking you, just putting 2 and 2 together.
I'm sorry I said I was only 38. I lied to the board....I just turned the big 40 on December 7th. I just wanted to be 39 and holding for a little while....my bad.... Can yall please find it in your hearts to forgive me? Originally Posted by mercianna
I hope I don't look like a nutcase... Originally Posted by merciannaNow, the previous comments were not about attacking you, even this one is not about attacking you. It is an observation of mine though. You do look like a nutcase. I'd throw in a couple of expletives to emphasize just how much you look like a nutcase but that would just be mean. For shit's sake, just ignore the haters and move on about your day.
Well tell me then since you two know me so well. What do you do when someone continues to spread malicious lies about you on the forum where you make a living? Originally Posted by merciannaNo vested interest here, but surely if you attempted to truly rise above it in a mature fashion, rather than air your dirty laundry in public, you may have better luck playing it off as BS. All I know is, many of us aren't storm chasers and there seems to be an F5 drama tornado in your vicinity, Mercianna. This, more than frivolous allegations by one out two people - with or without an agenda as the case may be, hurts your business the most.
Merci, I am sorry this has happened to you. After reading what this member has said and how many times he said it, is borderline stalking. IMHO, he might be obsessed with destroying you, it appears he is on a MISSION. Why haven't the MODS stopped this? If the mods put his handle in the search feature, they will see his agenda and there is your PROOF Merci. It is also possible that 3 Eccie RULES have been broken, along with the negitave comments made.I agree 1000%, especially on the "MISSION" and the guideline quotes, as it does sound familiar to as situation I WAS in.
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Merci, don't worry. Everyone can see what kind of member he is and providers should support you and not see a member like this or risk having it done to them as well. I can understand that all members have their oppinions but not as many times as he has about the same member and stalk/comment every review. thats crossing the line.
JMHO,
CG Originally Posted by Copierguy0