... All I can say is I have had numerous appts with her, and while a couple of times she was running behind schedule, she always let me know. She is sharing a vehicle and sh.. happens.
Originally Posted by oralick
Well first, you don't say whether these "numerous" appointments were outcall or incall. The complaints we have wouldn't rise to the level of a "call out" in Coed if the appointments were outcall at someone's residence. But like many of us, the OP can't do outcalls and blew a wad of cash on hotel rooms to see this girl - and got nothing for it.
In my first post on this thread I made up a new term that probably needs explanation. We all know what GPS is. But there's also what I call OPS, or "Oblivious Pussy Syndrome." OPS looks like GPS in every way, but the root cause is quite different. I want to believe that this girl simply is oblivious to the mayhem she causes when she flakes on a guy after he's paid for a hotel room, or done backflips to arrange his daily work schedule to accommodate her, or both. But now I'm not so sure. OPS can be forgiven if the provider changes her behavior once she's been made aware that her behavior has consequences - lost time and money - for her potential clients. The cure for obliviousness is education. There is no known cure for GPS.
I too have tried unsuccessfully to schedule with her numerous times since she hit Austin, and still have not seen her. Once we were close when she advertised that she had arranged an incall for a certain day. I booked an early appointment. The day of the appointment she emails me saying the hotel wouldn't let her check in early after all. I was disappointed, but not discouraged. We all agree, shit
does happen.
After so many close calls I finally decided to bite the bullet and get a room. Everything is arranged, and the morning of the appointment I'm just about to pay for the room on-line when I get a message from her asking if we could do the session later in the day, after lunch. Well, I couldn't because of my work schedule, and I let her know that. But she freely admitted that he reason for the change of plans was because she wanted to meet her roommate for lunch, and that lunch date would overlap our scheduled appointment. Apparently - and this gets to the heart of the difference between GPS and OPS - cancelling lunch with her roommate, or just rescheduling to make it a late lunch, was not an option. She had no idea whether I had or hadn't already paid for the room. It seemed to make no difference to her. I'm luckier than the OP because I hadn't paid for the room yet.
So you make the call ... GPS or OPS? I think it's GPS. But that photo of her wearing the pink panties that say "Kiss This" make me hope and pray that it's only OPS and can be cured.