I think I can speak for a lot of guys when I say my ATF is NOT the best looking girl I've been with. In fact, after only a single encounter with the "best looking girl I'd ever been with" I was through with her. But I saw my ATF almost every week for 3 years. So what was the difference? Well my ATF was very cute and had a great body, but what made her stand out was what she liked to talk about and do when we weren't having sex. She liked to talk about business, philosophy and religion and she was a not a know it all, she wanted to hear my opinion too, and she often agreed (but not always). She liked to meet me for lunch or happy hour and we went to the zoo once playing hookie on a beautiful day. Yes, we had a real friendship outside of our weekly sessions and even now that she's moved, I still get a text from her every once in a while to let me know she still thinks about me when she drives past the zoo in her new town.
In the end, my ATF simply cared about me and let me know it. And in turn I cared about her, and still do.
So what will turn me off in an instant?
1) Constantly trying to renegotiate the terms of our arrangement. (I'm done with you the second you try to upsell me)
2) Becoming a bottomless pit of need (financially and emotionally).
3) Stinky pussy (no amount of beauty or sexual prowess will overcome the stench of a stinky pussy and make me like you. nuf said.)
4) Horrendous tattoos (I like a tasteful tat here and there, but bad ones are no better than a scar across your once beautiful skin).
5) Dressing like a hooker (what a huge turn off, if you don't know how to dress sophisticated and sexy, don't think hooker gear is the next best thing. It isn't!)
There may be more but I can't think of them now.
