Can you spot a provider in a crowd?

I usually don't show my face on my pics but sometimes my back tattoo shows but it is rude to ask somebody when you could just ask for my phone number. Once I was at Quiktrip and my kids were in the car and I rudely explained to him that he must be mistaken and he musta recognized me from the hospital where I was a nurse Originally Posted by Blondie B

I didn't know guys from Kansas and Missouri were such pigs. That's shameful conduct especially if you were anyone, much less children.

But context is everything. I'm a distinguished (so I have been told) looking guy past 50 who was at the bar of a high class joint with a hot blonde 30 year old provider with breasts the size of, well they were large. do you think the bartender and anyone with half a brain knew what was up? and she totally charmed him with her class and knowledge of food and wine. it mattered nought to me but no one was fooled that she was a "date" or "niece".

No one will ever recognize me. I usually dress like a bum or tennis outfit if I am going to a match. And I never wear any make up. I just don't like the unwanted attention from men and most of the time I would like to be left alone. :-) Originally Posted by samantha thom

A hot asian in a tennis outfit might spark a moment of familiarity!!!

I usually don't show my face on my pics but sometimes my back tattoo shows but it is rude to ask somebody when you could just ask for my phone number. Once I was at Quiktrip and my kids were in the car and I rudely explained to him that he must be mistaken and he musta recognized me from the hospital where I was a nurse Originally Posted by Blondie B

I didn't know guys from Kansas and Missouri were such pigs. That's shameful conduct especially if you were anyone, much less children.

But context is everything. I'm a distinguished (so I have been told) looking guy past 50 who was at the bar of a high class joint with a hot blonde 30 year old provider with breasts the size of, well they were large. do you think the bartender and anyone with half a brain knew what was up? and she totally charmed him with her class and knowledge of food and wine. it mattered nought to me but no one was fooled that she was a "date" or "niece".

I think some girls just put out that vibe and some of us guys are able to pick up on it. Yes I think it would be rude to just go up to someone and ask the question.

. . . Do you sway your hips in a suggestive manner and maybe spin your purse as you walk?
Originally Posted by Fast Gunn

That's the tell you're looking for???
JFC, you can't make this shit up.

I usually don't show my face on my pics but sometimes my back tattoo shows but it is rude to ask somebody when you could just ask for my phone number. Once I was at Quiktrip and my kids were in the car and I rudely explained to him that he must be mistaken and he musta recognized me from the hospital where I was a nurse Originally Posted by Blondie B

Don't know about your ads, but your showcase pics show enough face. Don't know if that's the problem, but if it is, it's fixable.

...I always dress casual (cute top, jeans, wedges and of course make-up)... So to the men out there have you ever just been able to spot a provider in a crowd? Originally Posted by Blondie B

This outfit (especially in our little world) usually will get gents minds racing as to who or if she is a provider. Can I spot a provider in a crowd? No, not really, but the unwritten rule is when I do see a provider in the open, to NEVER approach them and ask "are you so and so?"

Usually, I just smile and picture them wearing nothing but Jergens lotion, heels and a smile!

Blondie B,

It's entirely possible that the situation has nothing to do with you (other than your attractiveness). There are guys out there who will approach any attractive woman and ask them what they charge.

Blondie B,

It's entirely possible that the situation has nothing to do with you (other than your attractiveness). There are guys out there who will approach any attractive woman and ask them what they charge. Originally Posted by emptywallet

yup,

Taking a client with you looking like a couple can cut it down. But not stop it.

My experiences with random men have been quite similar, with the exception of what do I charge. Since my enhancements and having a playmate look I notice men are more openly telling me what they are thinking. For instance, a walmart employee (the meat deprtment guy in the white coat) asked me if I would be interested in fulfilling his fantasy. He said I looked perfect for his fantasy of several guys giving me cream pies and letting him slurp it all out! I must say I was somewhat shocked lol. Some time later at the same walmart an average customer got all red in the face when I noticed him staring at me and he said "wow, those look great", I couldn't help but laugh and walk away. In Miami a little old retired guy at the beach approached me and asked me if I was a model and then threw his arms around me for a hug and stuffed his face between my tits, I didn't want to be mean to the little guy lol but I did break away nicely and went about my business. Others have either asked me "do I know you from somewhere?" Or "can I take a picture with you?"
Also it is nearly impossible to walk around the block and enjoy the weather or walk through a parking lot of a store to my car with out guys circling around me trying to get my attention. Going to the gym can often make me feel like an exhibit at an art museum.
Sometimes I wonder if any recognize me from my showcase or ads.
I also wonder if men have the slightest clue of how creepy they come off when they lose all focus of everything else and wander around looking lost staring...

They too often are thincking with the little head. But if you posted taint then ...

I also wonder if men have the slightest clue of how creepy they come off when they lose all focus of everything else and wander around looking lost staring...

I sure they do but you look so much like a celebrity almost perfect.
I will have to put you in my contact list.

I also wonder if men have the slightest clue of how creepy they come off when they lose all focus of everything else and wander around looking lost staring... Originally Posted by universalenergy

and/or drooling..

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wayward...is that you?

He is dead, again.

Running errands or just out in "regular" places it's hard because I know some who dress/look like a stereotypical hooker but I know many who dress in sundress and jeans & t-shirt or business-type attire for dates so ..... it's not always easy to spot them in everyday. BUT sometimes if quite a few younger girls in long weave/extensions, makeup, long lashes etc hanging out in a hotel lobby or bar has made me think "yeah she's working" a time or two.