To not have to work 2 jobs while raising my small humans.. This allows me to be the one who is home after school and who makes dinner not a sitter..
Originally Posted by VictoriaLyn
This!!!
Plus 1, 3, 5, 6.
If I were to work full time in my field, I'd make about 3k per month. Then I'd have to pay for after school care & I don't get child support. I'm not going to be a mom that works two jobs, so someone else can watch/raise my kids for a miniscule amount of $, so they can be neglected by a sitter or averagely taken care of at best. I'm also not going to live in poverty. My children deserve a better chance at life with a mother who is there physically & emotionally. So... I do this & work part time to supplement. I'm not lazy or dumb. Neither are most these girls. They are logical, pragmatic and hustle their asses off! I know I do. Until my baby daddy pays me child support & let's me keep taxes, I guess I'll be a provider who works part time & holds it down.
Plus, I have intimacy issues & I don't have time to be a hoe (gives it away) or go out and date. Who knows if they would be good to my kids. So, I make money. I get to be freaky. I get to be independent. I don't have to worry about someone being bad to my kids. I get to be a super mom & super milf that gets to explore sexuality on my terms. Y'all MF's talking smack & being judgy are just jealous. Lol.
@ Russell, you should not be so judgemental. You don't know any of our lives. Providers are bad bitches to be respected if anything. You wouldn't last two days in our life as a woman or provider!!
Shout out to all the independent strong woman doing a job most all men would do if they had a vagina. That's why some guys talk shit. They have pussy envy. Respect the pussy & it will reward you!
So.e of y'all MF's are ridiculous... Paying for pussy yet judging the pussy you just banged. It's some yall sickos with the pussy envy or mysigony with the problems.