Hobbyist please chime in with your opinions..☺

Venus.....what about the guys that are always on time and always show up? These guys understand that the provider's time is valuable. They also understand their time is valuable. I am one and done with a provider that cancels on me when I confirmed with her that morning. I'm also fair....if for some crazy reason I have to cancel on her I always pay for the session whether I show up or not.



I understand what you are considering but it will affect the other hobbyist that always do the right thing.
Those are the ones ladies want to keep.....not push away. Originally Posted by tbone2u

I agree with TBone. I asked a provider once, why she saw me and not another guy who I just happened to know wanted to see her at the same time. She responded, "Because I know you're going to show up on time. You're not going to try and change the date and time at the last minute, you'll be here when you say you will."
And that's the way I feel. I have never missed an appointment and if something catastrophic happened, I damn sure would at least text and apologize to make it up. Not sure I would pay for the session like TBone. That's pretty damn nice of him, but I would definitely schedule another time to make it up. So, I think what you do, is learn the dependable guys and stick with them, encourage them etc, and don't ask for a damn deposit. That just complicates matters.

I agree with TBone. I asked a provider once, why she saw me and not another guy who I just happened to know wanted to see her at the same time. She responded, "Because I know you're going to show up on time. You're not going to try and change the date and time at the last minute, you'll be here when you say you will."
And that's the way I feel. I have never missed an appointment and if something catastrophic happened, I damn sure would at least text and apologize to make it up. Not sure I would pay for the session like TBone. That's pretty damn nice of him, but I would definitely schedule another time to make it up. So, I think what you do, is learn the dependable guys and stick with them, encourage them etc, and don't ask for a damn deposit. That just complicates matters. Originally Posted by sharkman29

Agreed

Huh...?
Aren't you coming over tonight to leave a Deposit Sexy?
Now I'm confused Sharkman?
I'm not tipsy yet and I know I just read your text sober.
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Venus.....If Sharky is in fact coming to see you I know he will leave a deposit

I did! What kind of deposit, though??? LOL

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Pardon me for getting a little bit too comfy.
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Yeah, $. I know how to follow instructions!

I leave cream deposits all the time, every single time!

NCNS are a major problem on both sides of the hobby. Unfortunately the only thing guys can do to avoid them is to stop scheduling with known perpetuators. The OP solved her problem by requiring deposits, I wouldn't mind getting $50 every time I have been left knocking on the door of an incall with no response. As many guys (including myself) have already stated, they tend to avoid contacting providers that require a deposit. Just something for providers to take into consideration when deciding what policies to implement.

Actually this is pretty simple.


The deposits will work for them or not.
The phone will ring or it will not.

My rates have actually gone down with better service. Just got to be resourceful.

Deposits? Are you kidding lol. Originally Posted by bigstickdave6969

Also not a fan of deposits. It's starting to be more common in OH2 though.

To each their own, but I like to exchange a deposit for sexy pics or short video. Does not have to be much on either end, however I’ve found it helps filter out the BS and actually builds some trust and comadarie ahead of time. I realize this is counter intuitive, but for my experiences it’s been well worth it.