The only help you should ever offer a provider; is advice that comes from your mouth and not cash that comes from your wallet. Originally Posted by Brooke WildBut she told me my wallet
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I agree with Sophia - when ladies start ASKING for $$ you ARE being taken for a ride - even if they tell you it is a pre-payment for sessions - those sessions NEVER happen or at least they don't happen to even out what you paid out! Trust me on this one. Originally Posted by CivilBarristerWell that may come as a shock to the clients of mine who have suggested a prepay discount deal and been satisfied customers. I have NEVER failed to pay back every hour of prepaid time in an efficient, timely, and enthusiastic fashion. Heck, even a cynical woman should be eager to pay it back as quickly as the client wants because there is a financial incentive to do so. The sooner his prepaid deal is used up, the sooner he will renew.
The first rule of brand management is...Never...Ever say anything that will damage the brand... I'm just saying...
Not sure where your relentlessly obnoxious bitterness comes from....
Many of us are professional business people who take our commitments seriously. .... takes a LONG time to build a solid client base and a good reputation. Originally Posted by Sensual Sophia
The first rule of brand management is...Never...Ever say anything that will damage the brand... I'm just saying...Are you suggesting that calling CB on his chronic negativity will damage my brand? Usually I get a lot of high fives via PMs for it.Originally Posted by ThatManFromTexas
Are you suggesting that calling CB on his chronic negativity will damage my brand?...Actually, what I was saying ... in the Hobby perception is everything... not everyone will think they heard what you thought you said...
Originally Posted by Sensual Sophia
Thanks for the offer ... but that's not necessary... every woman I have met in the Hobby fit that description...
PM me if you'd like a list of sweet, energetic, educated, sane, organized, honest, professional, intelligent and talented ladies. Originally Posted by Sensual Sophia
Sophia,Ugh, ok..
You'd be VERY surprised about what we "know"...who actually does BBFS...which providers also have sessions with guys that see drugged out SW'ers and have no problem with that. Providers that see hobbyists that "dip into" various lifestyles that are more apt to have them pick up STD's that are from crabs to HIV. And then they have no qualms about seeing anyone else.
Originally Posted by ratboy jam
You can. There are plenty of them. Whoever this lady is, she has obviously pegged you as a sucker. A provider should never expect anything more than the fee for her time and companionship and should certainly not contact a hobbyist asking for favors.....
Never offer to do something special for a provider in the hopes of her becoming your girlfriend. It doesn't work.
....Providers do occasionally fall for hobbyists either sexually or emotionally and go off the clock with them. If a hobbyist really thinks a provider might be genuinely interested in a relationship outside the hobby, he should ask her to go on a date off the clock and see what happens. During the date play a little hard to get. If she seems interested, occasionally reward her with physical contact and clever compliments but nothing that seems needy or desperate. Flirt for sure, but don't be too over the top. If after the date SHE tries to jump YOUR bones, then you know the attraction is real. Originally Posted by Sensual Sophia
I cannot possibly put it any better than Sensual Sophia did, just nod in sync.[quote=TexasGator;351958]
As the Eurythymics sang,
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The key word is SOME, not all. It may take you a while to sift through the grit until you find some gems, but they're out there. Keep looking, sweetie, but be mindful of the pitfalls. Originally Posted by Fancyinheels
No...you're not the only guy that has fallen for someone in this line of business. In fact it's happened with providers...message therapist...secretaries...stri ppers etc. Not that all of those are in the same category...[quote=Guilty Pleasures;354852]Very well said Sophia.Originally Posted by DarthMaul