Hobbyist Provider Romance

There is a chance it could go well. The same way there is a chance you could win the lottery.

This. Ride it until it bucks you. Originally Posted by rcinokc

But if it bucks you and you land on your head and life is never the same don't complain or act incredulous. You asked for it.

Hey yall. I wanted to share a recent experience I had while on a trip in another state. I found a proivider not on this site but another. When I searched her number I found a bunch of stuff about her that made me realize that we may have a lot of things in common. She was definitely my type. I had this thought after setting up the appointment that chemistry may collide. Everything was routine for the most part of setting it up. Being out of town I was much more cautious and she with me. This was a provider on more of the high end scale as well. When I got to the hotel and to her room. We instantly connected. Got really into each other. To the point after we hooked up we went to lunch and ate. She then came to my hotel that night and we spent the next 5 days together. No more funds of any sort were exchanged besides a couple of dinners. She is flying out to see me soon as well. I am really into her and it appears her to me. It was not what I ever excepted happening but it did. Anyone else have any experience with this sort of thing happening? I am by no means a hardcore hobbyist dabbled for years to fill some lack of time and fun but hooking up and dating a provider was never my intention. Well I would enjoy your input on this. Thanks Originally Posted by BostonGeorge

I had something going recently with a companion. We enjoyed a couple of the same videogames. We did some otc stuff. She ended up choosing another man. No hard feelings. She gave me a great reference!

Are you both single? If it works out will she quit and go legit. Will you stop seeing providers?

If you both are committed, it can work out just like any relationship can. But in my experience and opinion, if either or both of you continues to play, it is very unlikely that it will be successful.

Regardless, have fun while it lasts!

I'm not saying that a provider/hobbyist real-life relationship can't work, but I don't see how. We are all here because something is missing, be it companionship, pornstar sex, cash, CIM, whatever. Each of us provides what the other is missing when we hook up for an hour/day/week. If you go for a relationship, odds are you can't/won't keep on providing what is missing.

"If we're boyfriend/girlfriend, why can't I face fuck you until you gag anymore? Why do you still ask me to give you money?"

Interesting. Sometimes the stars line up for you.

Think about this for a minute. So the slut gave you some “ free” pussy.
Which would amount to what ? A few thousand dollars. She then gets you to think she likes you. You become dumb and blind. She says some stuff. You say more stuff. Now LOVE IS IN THE AIR. Meanwhile she plotting and planning a
COUP. Yep a fucking COUP DE TAT. Taking everything you have because she gave you some “ free “ pussy. I’d say that is a good business decision on her resume. So now you are going to be dizzy because you think a hooker loves you. Lmao. So you invite her to meet your mother etc. she will be the perfect
Lady. Oh fuck but mother will know. But she won’t say anything to you. Because
She knows you will attack anyone who thinks she’s using you. Then you waste all your time money effort on the hustler slut. She moves in with you. But she won’t get a RW job. Because hustling is her RW job. So you’re out making $$
For her. Of course because she loves you. And guess what. She’s still fucking her regulars everyday. You then start buying her shit. And you start giving her cash for shopping etc.. Meanwhile her apt is still under lease because where else is her black pimp going to stay and eat wings and smoke all day while
Playing PS4 Basketball game. Out of LOVE for you she will leave you with something. Only a shirt on your back. She will take all your cash and anything that isn’t tied down. And she will obey her master same lowlife I mentioned
And bow down. And he will say to her. Attagirl you’re my number one. I told you I would give you the world. I would make you a rich bitch.
So you ask should I be with her. I say yes. Go for it. Fuck me Fuck mom This is for LOVE it only cums around once or twice in a lifetime.
I forbid you to see her again. Actually give her a NO review or a NCNS
She’s evil. For trying to hustle you like that. Hope you open your eyes and stop
Fucking fantasizing. Jesus Loves You !!!!!!!!

^^^ Seems like a lot of work for her when she could just get some rich dude to marry from the get go who thinks she's a civilian. If she's that good.

You’re not a man so you don’t know what a piece of pussy and some choice words can do to a mans head. Both heads. It’s not a lot of work. And he problem does have wealth. That’s why she’s hunting him.

You’re not a man so you don’t know what a piece of pussy and some choice words can do to a mans head. Both heads. It’s not a lot of work. And he problem does have wealth. That’s why she’s hunting him. Originally Posted by Tom Jickery

Well, I'm a man, and your scenario seems ridiculous to me. Like B Three said, why wouldn't she get the same gold-digging results by "posing" as a civvie girl?

Well, I'm a man, and your scenario seems ridiculous to me. Like B Three said, why wouldn't she get the same gold-digging results by "posing" as a civvie girl? Originally Posted by Crock

You’re not smart enough to know this apparently.

Well, I'm a man, and your scenario seems ridiculous to me. Like B Three said, why wouldn't she get the same gold-digging results by "posing" as a civvie girl? Originally Posted by Crock

Both things are very possible

TJ - you may not know this, about me but about 80% of the time, I agree with the dudes around here...probably higher with BLM and Crock. BLM knows I get on him about some little snide comments here and there to a lady or two, but I know he's a decent guy. Crock is usually spot on and we only disagree with a few things.

If some hooker is the master con artist you describe...then trust me, she's smart enough to not want to get hooked up with some guy who will always, to some degree, think she's a hooker.

I can look through the society pages here and see a good number of girls I know were working girls at some point but moved on to something longer term - with or without their husband's knowledge. You never know.

^^^ Seems like a lot of work for her when she could just get some rich dude to marry from the get go who thinks she's a civilian. If she's that good. Originally Posted by B Three

Curious. What is the advantage of getting someone "who thinks she's a civilian" versus someone who already knows that she is/was a provider?

Curious. What is the advantage of getting someone "who thinks she's a civilian" versus someone who already knows that she is/was a provider? Originally Posted by TheOracle

Which one do you think is more likely to consider her "fiance material?"

I've heard it many times here at ECCIE. Providers find it difficult to date guys who know them professionally, and find it easier to date guys who have no clue about their sex work. Prejudice is alive and well in our society.

Crock covered it.

Even if they don't care, guys don't want their friends to go all Jason Alexander in Pretty Woman and say or do something crazy.