How do you handle a jealous SO?

Don't have an SO / PIMP!

don't have an so

easy

Why do I have the distinct feeling some people are getting confused about a lady's SO vs her client's SO?

Yeah, some of the responders didn't make any sense. I have only had 2 wives contact me over the years. One to cancel my the trip I had planned with her husband. That was awkward. And a second to tell me that her low-down cheating scumbag husband had died and she was learning about the a-hole she had been living with all these years now that she had access to his laptop. Even more awkward.
The first I told that she must have the wrong number and the second I just said "I'm sorry for your loss" and hung up.

Why do I have the distinct feeling some people are getting confused about a lady's SO vs her client's SO? Originally Posted by Old-T

Spot on, T.

I'm single so won't happen with me.....if I ever do have an SO I would let any provider I see know I have an SO....just in case anything should ever go wrong like the examples in this thread....

And what Camille said.....DENY.....DENY.......D ENY......even if they have video.....like Shaggy's song... "It wasn't me"...

Yeah, some of the responders didn't make any sense. I have only had 2 wives contact me over the years. One to cancel my the trip I had planned with her husband. That was awkward. And a second to tell me that her low-down cheating scumbag husband had died and she was learning about the a-hole she had been living with all these years now that she had access to his laptop. Even more awkward.
The first I told that she must have the wrong number and the second I just said "I'm sorry for your loss" and hung up. Originally Posted by HeatherDAngelo

Thanks for sharing. I'm sure that is how most would handle that situation. Interesting story about the canceled trip.

I also avoid any random calls (even from clients), reserving my phone for logistics on the day of an appointment only.

I occasionally get guys who think its ok to get a bit chatty after screening, by email or text. I dont think this is ever a good idea, as those communications can be found, and what kind of story can you concoct at that point? I like for emails and texts to stay nice, tidy, and business-like - then at least a client could say I was requesting their services, whatever that occupation may be.

Recently, I've had a couple of requests from gentlemen who claimed to have SO's that had them on such tight leashes that they did not even have an independent phone that was not monitored by their SO's... no phone to coordinate a 2-call system = no appointment. Unsafe on so many levels.

LE could not do half the damage to me that an angry vindictive SO can. I have no dog in that fight. It is best for a client to not even put me in such a position.

Recently, I've had a couple of requests from gentlemen who claimed to have SO's that had them on such tight leashes that they did not even have an independent phone that was not monitored by their SO's... no phone to coordinate a 2-call system = no appointment. Unsafe on so many levels. Originally Posted by Solitaire

Those fucktards are too stupid to see on many levels.

I think we have all met the one that wants to Keep us to themselves. Just tell him this is your profession and he can have his time when he pays for it and on your time you do what you want, if it gets to overwhelming report him to a mod and stop seeing him. Originally Posted by sexiiladii90

SO means significant other.

re-read the first post, I think you misunderstood the question

I have not had this problem. I would just ignore any texts/calls from the SO.

In my personal life, because I used to DD frequently for my friends I would often get accused of being a homewrecker. I ended up having to ignore it and coaching my friends on "How to Keep Harpies Happy 101".