Dynamic NCNS, why don't say "hey I'm sorry I can't make it" No reasons needed...

I hate when that happens, especially after a long drive only to sit in the parking lot being ignored. Common courtesy is not so common it seems.

There's almost no reason for a nc/ns. There's almost always an opportunity for a quick "can't make it" text before hand. I hate it when it's done to me so I will not do it to anyone else. If something occurs that makes you nc/ns, then contact the lady asap to apologize.

I can't imagine nc/nsing Allegra. Besides being beautiful, passionate, and just a superb playmate, she's the most professional lady I've met in the way she handles her business. Hola Allegra!

Or had a flat tire Originally Posted by Adrienne Baptiste

Or the old standby... was just in a fender bender!

Really, I just wanted to say I LOVE your new avatar! Sexy and cool!

I understand stuff happens, but hey a simple text is enough. He sent me several texts (I've seen him before) , confirmed the day before, made me send him the address and even made me see him an hour before my schedule just to not show. I'm sorry but I believe that is plain disrespectful and very inconsiderate.
Oh and he is online now! No apology, nothing! I never post shit about anybody but this made me so mad.
Guys please, let us know when you can't make it... don't let us get up an hour earlier, get ready, move stuff around our schedule and drive to the place for nothing.
Rant over.
Have a great weekend. Originally Posted by Allegra Hope

You just need to relax your taint and take deep breaths that stretch your shirt with erect nipples and all will be good ...

Sorry Allegra - This happened to you... Well - but his case may be genuine, may be not....
But, nevertheless - I do not see any excuse in not informing...
But, as mentioned by some other guy, who would do this to you ? We have guys like us waiting for months to see you and on the other hand, we have guys who NCNS !!!
Strange , isn't it ???

Maybe he found a better option?

Maybe he found a better option with someone that posts taint photos? Originally Posted by BLM69

Completed the thought.

I use the excuse now that I dropped my sick Grandma in the toilet.

Can't imagine NCNS'ing Allegra....but perhaps he left a computer or phone logged in and is thus showing as "online" when in reality he is under SO Inquisition?
Keep smiling, Allegra, I'm sure this won't happen to you very often, though I realize it is frustrating when it does.

OP, you make a good point. If a person cannot/will not make an appointment, a cancellation notification is necessary, but a reason/excuse is not. In this business, neither client nor provider is likely to believe the reason/excuse, unless an effort is made immediately to mitigate the losses.

RW interrupts. As early as possible, call/text to cancel and attempt to reschedule, just like any other appointment.

...Oh and he is online now! ... Originally Posted by Allegra Hope

Since I live alone I leave myself logged on to ECCIE all the time, even when I'm not at the computer or when I'm not even home. So just because the site shows him online doesn't mean he's actually at the computer.

That said, I'm with everyone else. If you can't make an appointment there's pretty much no excuse for not sending a quick text message to let her know. It's just common courtesy.

Op, check what I have under my handle.

I don't have to think about it, don't have to plan for it, never make an excuse for it, it's just natural to do and it takes absolutely near no effort.

It's just treating people the way you want to be treated.

Shit happens - but when it does, people need to be honorable and fuck this, " oh, this was different ", suedo cerebral self righteous proclamations , unless you're fucking dead or worse !

Pet peeve of mine - I hate that crap !

Maybe he found a better option? Originally Posted by BLM69

Unpossible!

Allegra is one of least deserving of a NCNS. One time I texted her and she didn't respond. The next day I realized I had typed in one of the numbers incorrectly. I wonder who got the text.

She has been around Dfw since 2015 and that's her first? Talk about luck lol

I never cancelled on any providers, but if I ever did, you bet I will be letting them know as soon as I found out I couldn't make it. I understand everyone's time is valuable and think if is such a dick move not to let the other party know and apologize.

Had several NCNS the day of, but never experienced the dreaded arrive at the incall and receive silence.. That would drive me crazy since hobby time was so scarce.