Upcharges?

Call me crazy, but when I meet a client, my primary concern is creating a memorable experience — a passionate experience that feels genuine. The last thing on my mind is trying to nickel and dime someone in an attempt to squeeze every last drop out of them.

I don’t really see how it’s possible to create an exceptional experience when you have to stop every five seconds and demand extra for activities that should be all-inclusive... Especially when you call yourself “GFE.” That kind of behavior completely ruins the IOP. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

We pause this girlfriend experience with the total illusion of passion because you need to insert $$$ to continue. That does kind of ruin the moment now, doesn't it?

I think my response in the aforementioned upsell example speaks for itself on this issue.

I think the more pressing question is if a provider can attempt to upcharge can we request a refund if they don't serve the full Ros.

For the record this is tounge in cheek and I'm not trying to commit social suicide with that post but it does bring about a rule of fairness amongst the partnership you enter into with each client. Also if there's some sort of hidden menu like at Starbucks for a provider why not just be up front and put it out there. Like all premium options for all service industries I have a specific set of things I do and if it's not something available from a provider I actually don't set up a meeting. Just like I don't go to McDonald's for pasta. Give that a try and see how akward that gets. Go to a car wash and ask where their frozen food isle is. Swing into your local best buy and try to order a pizza. My point is upselling really is sorta a paradox I don't get and that sure makes me feel stupid to discuss and even more akward about an already delicate situation to begin with. Disclaimer and the one instance that I personally have circumvented this mentality: video or photos during a meeting. Special request and not something most provider will feel ok with for any and everyone as a good amount of trust and personal history can come into play. Offering that as a buckshot service can make you pornhub famous which I can completely understand not really being ok with.

We pause this girlfriend experience with the total illusion of passion because you need to insert $$$ to continue. That does kind of ruin the moment now, doesn't it? Originally Posted by arealone

Lol nailed it on the head there. Additionally I don't often grab copious amounts of extra cash to have laying around in case of upsell. Also forcasting exact hidden menu prices isn't my super power.

I currently have a lot of disposable income and if I'm really into a provider I'm willingly pay a premium. Sure, why not.

I currently have a lot of disposable income and if I'm really into a provider I'm willingly pay a premium. Sure, why not. Originally Posted by Katallish

One of RodnReel’s identities will be reaching out shortly.

Also if there's some sort of hidden menu like at Starbucks for a provider why not just be up front and put it out there. Like all premium options for all service industries I have a specific set of things I do and if it's not something available from a provider I actually don't set up a meeting. Just like I don't go to McDonald's for pasta. Originally Posted by Bigarcock

I expect that's probably why the info is not always readily given. They (or in some cases more to the point, those making the rules for them) know some guys won't come if they know there are upcharges for this and that. So rather than losing out on the whole donation at least they get that from you, and if they can extract an upcharge on top of it, great.

Once again, I have no issue with upcharges as long as they are specified clearly up front so that anyone who wishes to avoid providers who have them can do so. But also once again, check the review I posted earlier for an example of how jacked up it can get when that doesn't happen.

Ha! As if on cue, another head of the wolf appears! Too funny. Originally Posted by SpankyJ

U seem to have a hard time staying on subject considering you started this thread, maybe youre confused bc u start all threads. On the topic of upcharges, which you immediately confused with upsells, u failed to address the waitress cheesecake example you actually quoted. You quoted to make a point while simultaneously ignoring the point being made.

Wowzers.....


I've been researching your past post SpankyJ since you seem to be targeting me to fence with. It seems you have quite the history of targeting folks, provider and hobbyist alike. But i did find it worth noting

SPANKY J
SPARKY G

Where theres smoke, fire always follows.

SPANKY J
SPARKY G

U2 Always seem to be in concert. Always in perfect harmony and always on message NO MATTER what the thread topic is.

The only questions i have are: who's the head of the Wolf? Does the tail wag the Wolf or does the Wolf wag the tail?

SpankyJ you've recorded 86 reviews, 3/4 which are with SPARKY G or SPARKY G affiliates. This hardly qualifies you as an oficinado yet you troll the site as if u are the GODFATHER of the Arkansas hobby life when in all actuality you are very much a novice.

It's pretty amazing that you been allowed to operate with impunity while showing such wreckless disregard to the guidelines for so long.

Sparky & Spanky

Wherever there is controversy , you will find them.
Sparky & Spanky
The 2 self appointed moderators of the Arkansas board.

SPANKY J & SPARKY G

Put a ring on her already. You never know, maybe you've found yourself a Redhead who WILL say yes. Advice, if she says no she using you to line her pocket and FURTHER PROMOTE her team.

Sparky & Spanky, if you can't tell the difference between the two, neither can I .

Wowzers.....

I've been researching your past post SpankyJ since you seem to be targeting me to fence with. It seems you have quite the history of targeting folks, provider and hobbyist alike. But i did find it worth noting

SPANKY J
SPARKY G

Where theres smoke, fire always follows.

SPANKY J
SPARKY G

U2 Always seem to be in concert. Always in perfect harmony and always on message NO MATTER what the thread topic is.

The only questions i have are: who's the head of the Wolf? Does the tail wag the Wolf or does the Wolf wag the tail?

SpankyJ you've recorded 86 reviews, 3/4 which are with SPARKY G or SPARKY G affiliates. This hardly qualifies you as an oficinado yet you troll the site as if u are the GODFATHER of the Arkansas hobby life when in all actuality you are very much a novice.

It's pretty amazing that you been allowed to operate with impunity while showing such wreckless disregard to the guidelines for so long.

Sparky & Spanky

Wherever there is controversy , you will find them.
Sparky & Spanky
The 2 self appointed moderators of the Arkansas board.

SPANKY J & SPARKY G

Put a ring on her already. You never know, maybe you've found yourself a Redhead who WILL say yes. Advice, if she says no she using you to line her pocket and FURTHER PROMOTE her team.

Sparky & Spanky, if you can't tell the difference between the two, neither can I . Originally Posted by RodnReel

In the spirit of St. C's new guidance today (https://eccie.net/announcement.php?f=1946), I will not respond other than to say "huh?" and RTM your post for guideline #1 and guideline #6 violations. Have a nice day!

Up charges after setting up a date (or even worse, during playtime) is sleazy!! No doubt!!

But... over time, all commodities increase in value/price.
I remember $300/hr rates as far as ASPD dates back to... ‘99 - 2000. So anybody who argues that $300 rates (or up to $500 for exquisite quality) is out of line, simply isn’t very exxxperienced!
Or, you’re a cheap ass mf’r! JMO

Upcharging after y’all are already in the room is just horrible service.

Like I always say, you’re paying for your time with me. If it’s something I do and wanna go for it then as long as it fits in your time there’s no reason to upcharge you. Just my opinion. . . . I strive for the best experience

Upcharging after y’all are already in the room is just horrible service.

Like I always say, you’re paying for your time with me. If it’s something I do and wanna go for it then as long as it fits in your time there’s no reason to upcharge you. Just my opinion. . . . I strive for the best experience Originally Posted by SweetlyBlended80

Wonderful, admirable attitude! Thank you for sharing it. And, because I forgot to mention it earlier, Ginger's is admirable also. She has the same perspective.

Up charges after setting up a date (or even worse, during playtime) is sleazy!! No doubt!!

But... over time, all commodities increase in value/price.
I remember $300/hr rates as far as ASPD dates back to... ‘99 - 2000. So anybody who argues that $300 rates (or up to $500 for exquisite quality) is out of line, simply isn’t very exxxperienced!
Or, you’re a cheap ass mf’r! JMO Originally Posted by NTJME

I...agree with you. I'm as surprised as anyone, lol.

I...agree with you. I'm as surprised as anyone, lol. Originally Posted by SpankyJ

Yes, I agree, also!

We occasionally have our good moments, I guess. Lol

Wonderful, admirable attitude! Thank you for sharing it. And, because I forgot to mention it earlier, Ginger's is admirable also. She has the same perspective. Originally Posted by SpankyJ

Thank you, Spanky. Thankfully, I think that most of the independent higher-end Eccie ladies have this attitude.

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