Outing.... Seems to be a topic people have on their mind... What is an appropriate response?

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Wait for it.....There will be more revealed soon....
If I was so worried about being outed I wouldn't be here...
Or I would not put myself in the position to be outed....
You know you have the right to be silent ....
Anything you say can be used against you...
Just be the bigger person and forgive the other person
Sometimes people know not what they are doing.
It is all about forgiveness Originally Posted by universalenergy

Ya think? Personally, from experience, I've done that knowing the emotional mindset of the individual involved at the time.
Mod reaction was swift in removing the information on the site where it occurred ..... any potential damage was minimized....... In that case I felt it was appropriate and accepted his apology and it was done with......

This time around though we have Toyz rallying others and tossing the idea around for the 2nd time in just a few months...... He learned nothing the first time it seems.

When the person suggesting or doing the outing is guilty of having done it before and it is born in pettiness for the sake of grandstanding here on the boards for lack of the ability to successfully debate a topic or as a tantrum for losing face over and over..... well.... He and the others involved surely deserve something MORE appropriate wouldn't you think?


In Houston Co-Ed, there were some interesting things brought up about outing, whether on board or off board...



http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=147


http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=150


http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=159
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Ya think? Personally, from experience, I've done that knowing the emotional mindset of the individual involved at the time. Mod reaction was swift in removing the information on the site where it occurred ..... any potential damage was minimized....... In that case I felt it was appropriate and accepted his apology and it was done with......

This time around though we have Toyz rallying others and tossing the idea around for the 2nd time in just a few months...... He learned nothing the first time it seems.

When the person suggesting or doing the outing is guilty of having done it before and it is born in pettiness for the sake of grandstanding here on the boards for lack of the ability to successfully debate a topic or as a tantrum for losing face over and over..... well.... He and the others involved surely deserve something MORE appropriate wouldn't you think?


Originally Posted by Whispers
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In Houston Co-Ed, there were some interesting things brought up about outing, whether on board or off board...


http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=147


http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=150


http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=159 Originally Posted by Camille Fox
Thank-you for sharing.. I wonder why others seem to have no qualms making light of it....
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Wow!

Paranoid much? Or is this another lightly veiled threat?
Originally Posted by Toyz
No. not all. I try to stay with the guidelines..... Paranoia is a medical condition by the way. You really houldn't make such assumptions about any member in a post you know...


Oh.... Wait.....

You DO know now!:laughbounce 2:
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In Houston Co-Ed, there were some interesting things brought up about outing, whether on board or off board...



http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=147


http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=150


http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=...&postcount=159 Originally Posted by Camille Fox

When I first read these I thought they were tightening up on it.... In light of things today I tend to wonder.
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How would you respond to being outed? If your personal information or the personal information of others in your family or friends was shared with others here or made public? Originally Posted by Whispers