Providers-Clit sensitivity to Daty

In the last few years, I've tried a more restrained approach to clit stimulation with my tongue and lips. In my experience, that approach has been received much more favorably by my female companions. I have also noticed that many females have a "special spot" that really does it for them. I always ask about that now, so I know where to focus my attention. When I feel my head being squeezed between her thighs, I know I was working the right territory.
What I like is the question is for providers and more men answer than providers. I guess they don't know who they are.
Ya'll are turning on me!!!