Quite true...in addition, what the pics don't show are personality, wit, charm and intelligence. All of those weigh in with me.
if a gent does his homework, those are easier to discern from texts, IM's, emails and phone conversations though.
Originally Posted by Tony Patella
I disagree.
I'm not here for an ongoing relationship. I'm not looking for the illusion that she digs me and I hope she doesn't need me to pretend that if only things were different (and that I wasn't 30 years older!) then we could have been soul mates.
I am not speaking for anyone but myself here but I'm not sure how easy it would be for a vagina vendor to exhibit wit, charm, and intelligence if her mouth is otherwise occupied!
As for the photos. If you change your hair, get a photo immediately. If your cell phone won't take and upload at least one, phone a friend.
If you change your weight outside of say 5 pounds up or down, it really depends on other factors. 5 pounds on most guys is not noticeable but on a 5' 105 gal, it can be negative. Depends on how she gained the weight.
Bottom line:
If you can't put on the exact same clothes from your most recent photo in your ads and look exactly the same, you need a new photo.
In my own reasoning, if a vagina vendor opens the door and I have to do a double take to make sure it is the girl from the ads, there's a very good chance I'll opt to change my mind and just say something simple such as "I'm sorry but you look nothing like your photos so I need to leave. You don't look like what I was expecting.
Then leave.
It's akin to bait and switch if you look that different from your latest photo.