Hey 202 , here's a thread I did on this last year after you wrote a thread about being dissappointed .
Please don't post in this oldie !!!!
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=266744
I've gone out with a very select few top loyal clients for lunch/dinner/drinks before. But that is reserved for someone who has developed an ongoing loyal client status. Not for someone who is on the fence about initially seeing me.
I wonder how other providers feel about this though...Interesting thread.
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(FBSM with a simulated FS twist) Originally Posted by Laney1
This is something I wish more girls did. I've been to a few first time meets where she looked like her pics, but we just didn't click. Also, it would make the first session a lot less awkward.
It seems like it would be a good idea for girls who see newbies too. Over the course of a meal you could get a much better idea of how comfortable you are seeing someone bcd than just meeting blind for the first time.
As far as time goes I can see how that could be a problem if you're really busy, but just think you've got to eat anyway it might as well be in a restaurant you like. Originally Posted by actionman98
I've had the opportunity to have lunch with a couple of cool ladies who never expected anything other than free food. No donation for their time or expectation of a BCD appointment. Why don't more ladies do this? Originally Posted by txAustin202Allow me to play devil's advocate here and explain why this would be a bad idea from the lady's perspective: