Lunch/Dinner meet n greet

Hey 202 , here's a thread I did on this last year after you wrote a thread about being dissappointed .

Please don't post in this oldie !!!!
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=266744

Cool thanks DH. I will have to read that.

I had commented in that thread too. lol Considering how often I'm at the gym, the gym meet and greet that was suggested would work for me. :-)

I forgot about that !!! Hahaha !

I had a nice lunch this afternoon with a very cool provider.

Was it a meet n greet? If so was there any expectations of a bcd session?

I had a nice lunch this afternoon with a very cool provider. Originally Posted by Martianman

Not a meet and greet since we had met before. More like two people having lunch and drinks.

Hey MM. Looks like we took out the same young lady. lol

I've gone out with a very select few top loyal clients for lunch/dinner/drinks before. But that is reserved for someone who has developed an ongoing loyal client status. Not for someone who is on the fence about initially seeing me.

I wonder how other providers feel about this though...Interesting thread.

Leslielane1@live.com
(FBSM with a simulated FS twist) Originally Posted by Laney1

That would be my opinion also. A lady may want to go to lunch or drinks with one of her regulars but I cannot see it happening with someone she has never seen before. Unless, of course he wants that as part of the session.

Hey MM. Looks like we took out the same young lady. lol Originally Posted by txAustin202

Yes we did

This is something I wish more girls did. I've been to a few first time meets where she looked like her pics, but we just didn't click. Also, it would make the first session a lot less awkward.

It seems like it would be a good idea for girls who see newbies too. Over the course of a meal you could get a much better idea of how comfortable you are seeing someone bcd than just meeting blind for the first time.

As far as time goes I can see how that could be a problem if you're really busy, but just think you've got to eat anyway it might as well be in a restaurant you like.

+1

This is something I wish more girls did. I've been to a few first time meets where she looked like her pics, but we just didn't click. Also, it would make the first session a lot less awkward.

It seems like it would be a good idea for girls who see newbies too. Over the course of a meal you could get a much better idea of how comfortable you are seeing someone bcd than just meeting blind for the first time.

As far as time goes I can see how that could be a problem if you're really busy, but just think you've got to eat anyway it might as well be in a restaurant you like. Originally Posted by actionman98

There are ladies that run a low volume business and look for repeat clientele that not only accept invitations but initiate them as well. A young lady who I probably ever would have saw did exactly that with me and we have been friends quite a while now and I spent a good bit of money on her after getting to know her.

The avg provider simply ants nothing to do with any of us unless it is cash on the table good bye when we are done...

Sad but true...

The avg provider simply ants nothing to do with any of us unless it is cash on the table good bye when we are done... Originally Posted by Whispers

I've had the opportunity to have lunch with a couple of cool ladies who never expected anything other than free food. No donation for their time or expectation of a BCD appointment. Why don't more ladies do this? Originally Posted by txAustin202

Allow me to play devil's advocate here and explain why this would be a bad idea from the lady's perspective:

1. If the lady has an S.O. or kids, being seen at lunch/dinner with an older guy or a young gym rat by an acquaintance could be difficult/impossible to explain.
2. The lady and the gentleman might actually know each other in real life. (Yes, it happens.) Much better to see that through the keyhole and not answer the door instead of making a public scene out of it.
3. Allowing a strange guy to see her in a public place and potentially get real world info about her (license plate) enables this unscrupulous guy to easily get her real name, address, the names of any people she shares her place of residence with, past addresses, current/past employment, and so on. It goes downhill from there...
4. Face it… some guys here have "attachment issues". They forget this is the "Escort Client Community Information Exchange" and think it is OKCupid or eHarmony and that the ladies here are looking for a boyfriend, or are interesting in hanging out "for free". If they are on the site, they are interested in making money.

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