would agree with you and that's how it should be. But some gentleman get attached and emotions play in and we have seen them crash and burn.. Im also sure some providers have gone down that road too.
F and L and move on.
This will piss a few people off. I've been surprised and saddened by the nature of people's comments. Some men engage in the hobby because they, simultaneously, hate, desire, and fear women; sex-for-hire is a nonthreatening encounter. An anonymous forum that is comprised, in part, of like-minded souls brings out the worst. I'm very sorry Amelia has to put up with this but have to add that it's, probably, inevitable; it's one of the reasons providers get so hardened; you have to build emotional armor just to survive. That sucks! At their worst our sexual encounters are perfunctory couplings between two people who have no interest in each other; all that can be said about those is that each party probably gets what they want; i.e. money and ejaculation. At their best, the encounters are enjoyable, adventuresome and intimate with two participants who like and respect each other. Would that there were more of the latter and fewer of the former. Originally Posted by emerckxdeep... and beautiful in a deeply judgmental way.
All the hobbyists who maliciously say hurtful and nasty things are chasing away new and hot providers.Amen girl very well said.... I agree no need to belittle anyone.... smh ignorance is bliss girl...
Why do u feel u have a right to comment on things in a hurtful manor about a woman especially when u havent even seen them yet?
Providers have lives just like u do!! I have read some horrible things that hobbyists say about providers that make me sick. Who are u to make these judgements and say such hurtful things?
If u dont connect with a provider, SO WHAT?? Not everyone's chemistry is going to match up and be perfect. Shouldn't that be between u and ur provider?
Providers have bad days like u do. I read some hobbyist say a provider had a 5'o clock shadow.......she is sicilam italian...did u expect her to not be tan with dark hair?
If u come for good sex and recieve good sex why add in these comments that are unnecessary?
Your going to ruin it for everyone! The pretty girls will leave eventually if u continue this slander because they can get appointments elsewhere and u will have ruined it for everyone.
This site is to connect people who want to connect with another person in an intimate sexual manor.....its supposed to be enjoyable. Your taking the fun out of it.
I SAID IT.......lets hear what others have to say Originally Posted by Amelia Angel
I have never posted anything about a hobbyist no matter how bd the experience. NEVER. I have not gone on and talked shit in the provider only room and I have had some really messed up guys act very inappropriate.hey ms angel...you r more than welcome todo all of this is the ladies infoshare area..thats really what its for,,youll get great advice on how to handle this type of situations from the ladies that have been there and done that..
I dont feel it is my place to comment on those things.
Now if a guy was violent or I felt unsafe then I would but the bullshit the hobbyist bitch about in the backdoor room and in our reviews is crap.
There is a nice way of saying thngs and a nasty way and too many times the hobbyists take the nasty root.
I am all for people reporting very BAD things like unclean, unsafe conditions, being ripped off or anything like that but these guys are bitching about SUBBLE on a girls pussy!! Originally Posted by Amelia Angel
hey ms angel...you r more than welcome todo all of this is the ladies infoshare area..thats really what its for,,youll get great advice on how to handle this type of situations from the ladies that have been there and done that..Can I cut and paste this into someone else's very similar threAD? Good advice for there as well.
men that bash on these types of site will always be there..use that to pre screen..and let it help you determine whether or not you will see them..
dont sweat the small stuff lady and keep your chin up..aj.. Originally Posted by aj14620