Question for guys about condoms

I never wear condoms but stealthing is a major violation of trust. Same goes for ladies poking holes in condoms, which has happened to a few of my friends in order for their girlfriends/wives to trap them with a baby. Same also goes for ladies who lie about taking birth control or guys who lie about being snipped. Lots of deception about sex it seems.
I think guys focus too much on the condom. Usually the problem is not the condom but the girl have a loose pussy.

Definitely a way for dudes to push boundaries. It's not difficult to find girls that willingly offer BBFS if that's what they were actually after.
river985's Avatar
Had this same experience recently with my SB. Lubed up the little fellow before suiting up. Pulled out later to change positions and had to go fishing deep for the cover.

once upon a time this lady had a bad habit of lube dick before he or she put on the condom. Condom time almost every time. Originally Posted by offshoredrilling
Ripmany's Avatar
… apparently there is a new trend in the hobby and dating world like called “steal thing.”
This is where the guy slips the condom off during sex. I was talking about this with some of my girlfriends and recent experiences.

Guys, can you really NOT Feel if the condom has come off? Or do you think this is always done on purpose? I’m not talking about it breaking: I’ve had girls tell me that they had to dig deep.
I’ve had lots of sex in my personal life and I’ve never had a condom just slip off accidentally.

I call bullshit! Originally Posted by DallasBella
First it call stealth yes there guys do this, he risk getting hurt and the session over, some States it consider RAPE, can she feel it maybe but it to late if came in her.
I have had the condoms come off after I cum sever times with it inside her.Since the cum is lube In fact if has surface or lip dryness it will happen. This happen unless one person holds condom during deflation penis.

I guess if she has dry vagina and condom on for lube side on the penis side it will for sure slip off into the vagina.

The last provider I seen supply the condoms she did not tell me there had a a numbing agent in them that cause me not to cum for a hour. I look at box as her about it after she said she did not know but she gave the last guy cbj and her face went nube.

But jerks in hobby, if going to raw dog a provider we both know.
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I have had the condoms come off after I cum sever times with it inside her.
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Yeah genius : you take it off IMMEDIATELY after you cum


I guess if she has dry vagina and condom on for lube side on the penis side it will for sure slip off into the vagina.
Originally Posted by Ripmany
Its actually the opposite lol: TIGHT pussy tends to pull the condoms off
Not a fan of condoms but condom sex is better than no sex.. Stealthing is a total asshole move and nobody should have to put up with it..I had condoms slip off without me noticing in two situations. An old girlfriend had very loose pussy and also got really, really wet. After a while things would get so mushy and sometimes the condom slipped off and neither of us noticed. The other was with a provider who would put a bit of lube in the condom before rolling it on my little buddy. She was also really wet or did some heavy presession lubing. That was the best condom sex ever but the condom did slip off at times without either of us noticing.
Cendell M's Avatar
Stealthing is the cute papi MO here in Houston

I’m surprise he hasn’t chimed in…..
Treetop78759's Avatar
I think you are doing nothing but over reacting. Condoms break and condoms fall off for many reasons. Its part of the game. As long as a hooker isn't risking the guy with an STD its not that big of a deal.
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  • BLM69
  • 10-18-2022, 12:24 PM
What about when the woman doesn't say anything and just jumps on top of you raw? What's that considered? Honestly these days, it's almost expected or maybe I'm running into the wild ones ..
MarcellusWalluz's Avatar
… apparently there is a new trend in the hobby and dating world like called “steal thing.” Originally Posted by DallasBella
Stealthing is the cute papi MO here in Houston

I’m surprise he hasn’t chimed in….. Originally Posted by Cendell M
+1
"Stealthing" is nothing new. Have met plenty of ladies over the years (in the hobby) who constantly check to make sure it's still on during activities.
Guys, can you really NOT Feel if the condom has come off? Or do you think this is always done on purpose? I’m not talking about it breaking: I’ve had girls tell me that they had to dig deep.
I’ve had lots of sex in my personal life and I’ve never had a condom just slip off accidentally.

I call bullshit! Originally Posted by DallasBella
Slipped off once while in Cowgirl with a provider. I didn't even realize until we changed positions to K9.
She would have never known either until the end if I hadn't have said anything. & Yes, it also took her a while to dig it out so it must have been off for more than just a few seconds & like someone else mentioned I was more concerned about it than she was. Put on a new one & filled it up 48 seconds later.
I think it slid off because she drenched me in lube before even putting it, then even more lube.
Of course she said it was because I had a "Pencil Dick".
Cendell M's Avatar
Yep, Just do a reach around still there keep it going

Pangolier's Avatar
… apparently there is a new trend in the hobby and dating world like called “steal thing.”
This is where the guy slips the condom off during sex. I was talking about this with some of my girlfriends and recent experiences.

Guys, can you really NOT Feel if the condom has come off? Or do you think this is always done on purpose? I’m not talking about it breaking: I’ve had girls tell me that they had to dig deep.
I’ve had lots of sex in my personal life and I’ve never had a condom just slip off accidentally.

I call bullshit! Originally Posted by DallasBella

The term is "stealthing" Stealth as in to hide what you are doing. It's been around for a couple of years. Never had one slip off. Did have one get stuck after ejac, but the base was visible outside so I just pulled it out with my fingers. Now I have had a couple break and I was never aware of it until it was "too late"
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When you pick up your pet dog crap after a walk outside with the dog with a glove. Do you negate washing your hands after you get home and start to make a sandwich? If you don’t your hand is still shitty until you do……..even medical people are taught to wash their hands after patient contact cause gloves can fail.

That being said I don’t have condom issues. But try not to have sex with ladies you are worried about getting “shit” from.
I’ve had it happen once by accident, but neither of us noticed it, we were having too good a time. Fortunately, there were no after affects.
+1
Put on a new one & filled it up 48 seconds later. Originally Posted by MarcellusWalluz

Who had the stopwatch? Or was there a large digital clock over the bed?


But importantly, did you get a Bronze, Silver, or Gold medal or just "best in show"?