Sinister,
Darlin', I'm not trying to bust your bubble. But, its quite the myth that women are better at DATY than guys. I've met women who had no idea of what they were doing. On the otherhand, I have met guys who almost brought me to the point of begging for more because they were so good.
Most providers won't allow you a limited session right off the bat, they don't know you nor do they know if you're legit or not.
I would consider that if you passed my verificiation process.