Having a personal assistant vs management?

I was having a discussion with a friend of mine and I know I have seen ads offering to assist ladies with scheduling,screening,emails etc...and in my opinion it seems to take away from the personal touch as well as letting someone access to gentleman's information and you are paying them for this? Isn't this the same as working for an agency or having a manager just worded differently? I am wondering what the ladies think, and would love to hear from ladies who use these services and for the guys what to you think do you like the idea of contacting and Indy lady and yet in reality someone else is handling your request and info? Just for my personal I like handling my own dates and while yes it gets hectic at times I feel the personal touch and privacy of the gentlemen I see is the most inportant...Input??? Originally Posted by Irish Vixen

Many moons ago when I first started this business, I went to a high end escort agency called Platinum Escorts in San Fransisco. The girl who owned it was a former Playboy model and she ran her business a tight ship. I liked my interview with her and signed on immediately, because I was a newbie, I felt I needed some guidance and protection. I made more money working for her than any of the other 70 girls she had and 25 gay men working for her because I CHOSE to do that, my goal was to buy a house when I was 30. We got regular paychecks and everything because most men paid by credit card and this was at the height of the dot.com business in the area so we had huge spenders. She was outcall only though so it was tough driving all around everywhere to strange men's houses and hotels, although she screened her clients.

Once she closed down ( thanks a lot, cops) I then went on the newly formed Erosguide, and for several years just worked independently there, and never looked back. For the past few years I HAVE gotten lazy but, as much as I considered a few times having a female assistance, I don't want anyone privy to my business and also, don't want to share any of my money with them. I tried working a brothel once and that didn't work, so I will always as I did with Erosguide get my own clients, schedule my appointments and screen then,and to me, IMHO, it's worth it. I get to keep all my money LOL. And it's easier for me, just to be my own boss, you know?

Pimps should be dealt with just like vampires! Originally Posted by Still Looking

Very true, they are both blood suckers, but vampires have better fashion sense.

SL & FnF, you guys said it so well. No matter how they try to couch it a pimp is a pimp.

Whatever anybodies belief, we are dealing with an activity that is currently illegal so pimps and shady agencies are going to be the rule. Hell look at car dealers, they are legal and they steal every day. How can we not expect the same from (to simplify conversation I will call them all pimps) pimps. Some of the girls have goals, and are independent, and these women will make a killing and be set for life. Many others are intimidated into the pimp mindset, and they are basically hopeless. I was at a SC the other night and one of the girls I hadn't seen in a while sat down and she has 2 semesters before she becomes a pharmacist. I have known this for some time and it is why she is there so seldom. She said I would be shocked if I knew how many of the girls danced, and just gave their money to a pimp. I have heard too many girls defend their pimp with a killers pride to know that I cannot get through to them with logic. It is the same mindset as a woman who returns time and again to an abuser. One girl was telling me how she got tangled up in things because she had a string of abusers. I told her not all guys are like that, and her response was that she just uses those guys. In other words if you treat her good she will shit on you, and if you steal from her she will be loyal.
We want what we want. We are damaged goods trying to exist in a society that is not in unison with our evolution. We must pay the price of dealing with pimps to be able to dip our beaks. Originally Posted by FlectiNonFrangi

Of course those situations exist--and I suspect moreso in strip clubs. But I do not ascribe to it being the overwhelming number, especially when talking the ladies on here. I am sorry you have such a bleak view of the community.

Pimps should be dealt with just like vampires! Originally Posted by Still Looking

Very true, they are both blood suckers, but vampires have better fashion sense. Originally Posted by FlectiNonFrangi

Actually, if forced to spend the night with one or the other I'd probably choose the vampire. Pimps and pedophiles are at the bottom of the moral food chain no matter how I view it.

Of course those situations exist--and I suspect moreso in strip clubs. But I do not ascribe to it being the overwhelming number, especially when talking the ladies on here. I am sorry you have such a bleak view of the community. Originally Posted by Old-T

I am a realist, and my opinion is not bleak. This is just what comes with the territory. I was naive until I met a friend who had that special ability. Not a handsome man, but he could get the girls eating out of his hand in moments. If you named a girl he had seen he could tell you if they had a pimp and usually the pimps name. Certainly there are independent girls, and they are the smart ones. Remember the majority of the girls do not post on the forums, just like the majority of the guys do not post. As bad as I despise pimps I will still see a girl that has a pimp if she is who I want to see. Unless I stick with the few girls I am positive about then I will be contributing to a pimp. What you see in our little community is not necessarily representative of the majority of providers.

Actually, if forced to spend the night with one or the other I'd probably choose the vampire. Pimps and pedophiles are at the bottom of the moral food chain no matter how I view it. Originally Posted by Old-T

I don't think you really want to spend the night with the vampire. Spend the night with the pimp, and the day with the vampire.

I don't think you really want to spend the night with the vampire. Spend the night with the pimp, and the day with the vampire. Originally Posted by FlectiNonFrangi

Amen girl....I like working for myself and more importantly protecting the gentlemen's info is of utmost importance...

Many moons ago when I first started this business, I went to a high end escort agency called Platinum Escorts in San Fransisco. The girl who owned it was a former Playboy model and she ran her business a tight ship. I liked my interview with her and signed on immediately, because I was a newbie, I felt I needed some guidance and protection. I made more money working for her than any of the other 70 girls she had and 25 gay men working for her because I CHOSE to do that, my goal was to buy a house when I was 30. We got regular paychecks and everything because most men paid by credit card and this was at the height of the dot.com business in the area so we had huge spenders. She was outcall only though so it was tough driving all around everywhere to strange men's houses and hotels, although she screened her clients.

Once she closed down ( thanks a lot, cops) I then went on the newly formed Erosguide, and for several years just worked independently there, and never looked back. For the past few years I HAVE gotten lazy but, as much as I considered a few times having a female assistance, I don't want anyone privy to my business and also, don't want to share any of my money with them. I tried working a brothel once and that didn't work, so I will always as I did with Erosguide get my own clients, schedule my appointments and screen then,and to me, IMHO, it's worth it. I get to keep all my money LOL. And it's easier for me, just to be my own boss, you know? Originally Posted by alluringava

Very true, they are both blood suckers, but vampires have better fashion sense. Originally Posted by FlectiNonFrangi

FNF you’re too much! That’s awesome!

FNF you’re too much! That’s awesome! Originally Posted by Still Looking

I love it when I call a girl for a reference and a rough dude answers the phone and says " YO BITCH" or something and then says " Oh hello, I'm her manager. May I help you?"

I love it when I call a girl for a reference and a rough dude answers the phone and says " YO BITCH" or something and then says " Oh hello, I'm her manager. May I help you?" Originally Posted by alluringava

Not, that I'm calling for references.... but nothing even close to that has ever happened to me! * Am I just lucky?
Naaaaaahhhhhh.... I don't think so!

Guys need to screen too.... just sayin...

I love it when I call a girl for a reference and a rough dude answers the phone and says " YO BITCH" or something and then says " Oh hello, I'm her manager. May I help you?" Originally Posted by alluringava

Thats a pimp... the vampire says "GOOD EVENING" LOL

Thats a pimp... the vampire says "GOOD EVENING" LOL Originally Posted by Still Looking

I told the guy I was a Bible saleswoman and would he be particularly interested in the fact that lust and the procuring of women was a major sin, and I hung up.

Lets stay on topic please.