submission? ??

Houston Switch, I didnt say guys are all the same. Of course each guy is unique. I was saying the guys on here are similar in that they all have their unique fantasies and just have to let their partner know what those fantasies may be or try out a few and see what works.

I really liked what White Chocolate wrote. Everyone is different.

Some guys really don't know what they want but they're needing something. What you have to do is figure out what they need.

And it's always different. Some like a little pain. Some like a lot. Others? NONE.

It's really tough to give a guy what he wants if he doesn't give you SOME idea of what he desires.

If he swears that he doesn't know ... then start slow and go forward. Take control of the time together. Have him start with a foot rub. Read websites about male domination.

There is a ton of it out there. Frankly, my clients taught me the most about this lifestyle. That's where you start.

Good luck.
Liz