Screening: Full rate no private time

Time is money and a meet and greet takes time = money. Originally Posted by Lindsay Lee

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This seems more like a SB\SD arrangement than an escort arrangement. However, it's your money to do with as you please. I'm sure some provider(s) would gladly take $200 and a free lunch just to meet (screen) you.

There are plenty of ladies out there that would be okay with meeting you for a drink/snack and chit chat if you are committed to scheduling if the chemistry is right. Some ladies are all about the money/hustle and it sounds like that’s not what you’re looking for. You have to approach it in a way that’s most comfortable for you. I agree with the others that say it’s not necessary to pay a BCD donation to get referrals. I also don’t recommend scheduling with “time is money” types. I’d rather pay extra for chemistry and welcoming attitudes. Just my .02. Do your homework and get back out there. There’s plenty of fun to be had.

I guess the bottom line question is does a “meet and great” suffice for screening for most if not all providers. Money here is not the issue. Safety, connection and breaking the ice are?
Rather waste my money on meet and great vs. a bad experience. I am finding that most high end providers are not responding to this offer. Maybe sounds too easy to be true and I get that. I don’t mind employment verification for screening as well. Tough breaking back in with certain ladies.

Many thanks all!

Time is money and a meet and greet takes time = money. Originally Posted by Lindsay Lee

Or you can look at it like a sales approach, which is that those meetings are the cost of securing a client or deal and making much more money down the line. A meet and greet for free or at a low rate is worth it in the end if you secure that client as a regular.

I have been doing this a long time. You would be surprised with the people who just want to waste your time. Once we have our time together and we both respect each other, there is not a problem with having lunch or a drink. I am very generous with my time and do not consider myself to be one of “those types” as mentioned above. I do however know about all the BS that goes on in this little group and choose carefully. Just like you all choose carefully!

I did not mean to come across bitchy and greedy! That is not me... but i’m wise!

xoxooxo!

I guess the bottom line question is does a “meet and great” suffice for screening for most if not all providers. Originally Posted by Harpoon

For me, absolutely not. Meeting you in public doesnt tell me anything about you. Gents that suggest this instead of going through my traditional screening always seem like tire kickers to me.

My screening is straight forward. I want references from 2-3 verifiable ladies and/or real world information, and that's before I will even give you my phone number. After screening, I'm happy to meet for a drink and then head back to my play pen for a little playtime.

If you're just wanting a social outing, that can be arranged too, but after the above screening process is completed.

I think you speak for most Providers Laura.. It looks like someone in my position will have to see a few providers that they may not be necessarily interested in just to get references. Also the providers I am requesting meet and greets from are just damn hard to see regardless. Just heard back from another that they do not meet someone they don’t know in public. Not sure I understand that one but accept it.

Sure wish p411 would open up to new clients again.

Thanks all

Harpoon, I highly recommend Sherry of DFW:

https://eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=159971

She is newbie friendly, reference friendly, and offers very affordable rates for her time. She's a pleasure to talk to, one of the smartest women I've met in my life.

Even if you're not physically attracted, you can just talk to her and let her enlighten you. She will then give you a reference to see any other lady you want. Hope this helps buddy.

I have alternative screening methods
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I guess the bottom line question is does a “meet and great” suffice for screening for most if not all providers. Money here is not the issue. Safety, connection and breaking the ice are?
Rather waste my money on meet and great vs. a bad experience. I am finding that most high end providers are not responding to this offer. Maybe sounds too easy to be true and I get that. I don’t mind employment verification for screening as well. Tough breaking back in with certain ladies.

Many thanks all! Originally Posted by Harpoon

I believe your approach is causing your problems. If you are sending a long private message, or email, that's probably not getting read.

Also, you are willing to spend money on a meet and greet, that's great. As you've read it doesn't replace screening. Go get a blow job and then if you want to go out publicly they'll be more than happy to do that too.


Find a newbie friendly lady. Know their rates. Don't ever mention money or anything sexual. There are lots of ladies on the sight that are beautiful and newbie friendly.


Less is more and more is less.

PM them the followingç

"Hi, would you have an hour available on Tuesday at 7PM?"

That's a one liner that works!

They'll either just say yes or ask for references. If they do ask for references then reply.

"I'm a newbie, can you do alternative screening, please?"

If you are comfortable with what they request, give it to them.

Pro tip, if you aren't, just move on.

Don't try to offer something else for verification . They've got a way they do it and are comfortable with that method. Your way may be just as good or better but remember hooker logic.... it will just piss them off if you haggle about verification.

Once you're there still don't say anything sexual or talk money. Enjoy your time.

Write a review after your bcd session.

45? Damn. I'll address you as ma'am moving forward. You older than me. 😁😁😁 Originally Posted by Shep3.0

Yes Shep, I'm an old whore! 👵🏻👵🏻👵🏻
MZ. Katrina will do🤣🤣🤣

We don't have thirsty hoes here, them hookers are starving Originally Posted by BLM69

Mf'kn STARVING...let me tell ya. Hoes will do ANYTHING for a dollar....smh. Standards bitch, standards. Some things are precious, some things aren't. Balls in your court HOE. 🏀

Been keeping it very short. Meet and greet will not replace screeening. Got it!

Will look for alternate method providers.


Many thanks!

Lots of beautiful newbie friendly women here. Research and go see a few.