how many of you forget during a session that it is a session

Very good question! I do that a lot, mostly subconsciously. When everything clicks, it feels a lot more like a one time encounter or one night stand than a session. Usually, this happens for me when I feel comfortable and somewhat attracted to the client. It doesn't feel like work at all, just fun! I have actually wanted to see some clients again, but don't want to appear too forward or bother them. Originally Posted by HoustonMilfDebbie

While I may get caught up in the moment, I never forget it's a session simply because the time seems to go too fast.

Debbie, you can be forward with me any time!

My wife has always said that she never mixed clients and nonclients. She enjoyed the company and converstaions with clients, most of whom were senior business executives. However, she never looked at them as "boyfriends." She also never dated any client although quite a few developed interests in her.

Sometimes I was looking for the most romantic session I could find, then I could cross that line. Not looking for the most porn star, or best blowjob, or best cowgirl, missionary, or doggy, but the most romantic. There's a difference between a romantic session and the most PSE/GFE session.

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I remember one time I was in dire needs of a session. Not dire want, but dire need. My wife had just had open heart surgery requiring 3 bypasses, and I went through hell over the past month or so before this need hit. My conscience was bothering me terribly about seeing a provider as my wife (was at that time) well on her way to recovering (at home by this time for about 3 weeks) from that surgery. I knew I needed to see a special someone, but I was trying to figure out who. I didn't know if everything (during the hour time limit) was going to be normal, or if I would freak out and start crying and leave, or get nauseous due to the stress of stepping out of the marriage right after her medical ordeal.

What I needed was a provider who I could trust to tell her my situation, so if something happened out of the normal she would be compassionate and understanding. More so than any session I have had, I needed someone I could trust. I found her, and had known her for years.

You guys and gals know her as Allison of Houston and this is the highest compliment I could give anybody.

By the way, the session went like normal, a great time. For an hour, time was suspended and I was in another world.

What I needed was a provider who I could trust to tell her my situation, so if something happened out of the normal she would be compassionate and understanding. More so than any session I have had, I needed someone I could trust. I found her, and had known her for years.

You guys and gals know her as Allison of Houston and this is the highest compliment I could give anybody. Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN

Darlin, it was my pleasure and I remember that..it touched me that I could help you through that..you are such a special man and the fact that you are still around and still care about me the way you do makes me feel like a real person, not just a provider..because to me you are more than a dollar sign or bank account..and just so you know I am here for you anytime...and you know that...yes I am the provider with a heart..deal with it !!!

I have had many sessions where I "forget". Why wouldn't you? After all, isn't that what the GFE is supposed to be about?

Some times, you are just that... a girlfriend..Some hobbyist do not see more than one lady at a time.. they treat you just as such.. their girlfriend, and why would you treat them any different? Because there is a donation laying there?

IMO it would suck, if in fact, every man who walked through the door, acted as a "robot" and was just following "protocal". Yes, there are some you just do not feel that "connection" with, but for the most part, hell, I'm trying to enjoy the moment and not keep thinking "this is just for...."

That's just my opinion. Originally Posted by NIKKILOVE

There are definitely some people you click with and some you don't. I've had a fair share of providers who acted basically, as quoted above, robotic throughout the entire session so I never had a desire to go back regardless of what they looked like. So for me, having some sort of connection greatly increases the intensity of the sex and will stick in your head for a while and you'll most likely gravitate back to those providers who can create that experience for you.

When a certain attraction, touch, kiss happens and it just feels good. I must admit I have some clients who I look forward to seeing. Its the feeling of really "Making Love". And the more I'm here the more I'm connecting. Then some guys come in with their noses turned up looking at you like you are a nobody and it becomes robotic. In those cases you try the best you can to act like you don't notice, but you do. And those often come back over and over again lol. Maybe they don't really want you to know that they like you lmao. I love my job

When a certain attraction, touch, kiss happens and it just feels good. I must admit I have some clients who I look forward to seeing. Its the feeling of really "Making Love". And the more I'm here the more I'm connecting. Then some guys come in with their noses turned up looking at you like you are a nobody and it becomes robotic. In those cases you try the best you can to act like you don't notice, but you do. And those often come back over and over again lol. Maybe they don't really want you to know that they like you lmao. I love my job Originally Posted by bustyamy

lol....I guess some people are ok with just un-emotional, robotic sex but hell, I could stay home and jerk off and have that

Sometimes I was looking for the most romantic session I could find, then I could cross that line. Not looking for the most porn star, or best blowjob, or best cowgirl, missionary, or doggy, but the most romantic. There's a difference between a romantic session and the most PSE/GFE session.

****************************** *****

I remember one time I was in dire needs of a session. Not dire want, but dire need. My wife had just had open heart surgery requiring 3 bypasses, and I went through hell over the past month or so before this need hit. My conscience was bothering me terribly about seeing a provider as my wife (was at that time) well on her way to recovering (at home by this time for about 3 weeks) from that surgery. I knew I needed to see a special someone, but I was trying to figure out who. I didn't know if everything (during the hour time limit) was going to be normal, or if I would freak out and start crying and leave, or get nauseous due to the stress of stepping out of the marriage right after her medical ordeal.

What I needed was a provider who I could trust to tell her my situation, so if something happened out of the normal she would be compassionate and understanding. More so than any session I have had, I needed someone I could trust. I found her, and had known her for years.

You guys and gals know her as Allison of Houston and this is the highest compliment I could give anybody.

By the way, the session went like normal, a great time. For an hour, time was suspended and I was in another world. Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN

Dear_John,

That is something that most likely would never be in a review. Thanks for sharing.

Allison, you are something special...

Screen Name how are you darling? Are you a little tired??? Muahhhh

I have to agree about Allison. She is a very special lady, and a reason she is an ATF of mine. You definitely can get lost with her and that is why I prefer a longer time with her. She is the greatest!!

long about the time she ask for the money my memory gets much better

Dear_John,

That is something that most likely would never be in a review. Thanks for sharing.

Allison, you are something special... Originally Posted by Screen_Name

well thank you darlin..I try..so when are you going to let me show you just how much ?..and luvbbw you are making me blush....Ive never been one for robotic sex..I need to feel touch, kiss and caress..thats why I love it when the man is vocal also , lets me know that I am doing it right....

I don't think women are head-wired to be able to fool themselves into forgetting that its just sex for money.

Men are.

Thats why there are so many female escorts for men and so few male escorts for women.

Of course, this is totally ignoring the whole G-L-TS-TG world (or whatever the trendy acronyme is).

Just forget the donation and see how fast you will be brought back to reality!

A long time ago, I was seeing a client for free! It was a terrible mistake on my part though.