Provider Only Activities?

At what age do wives stop having a sex drive? Is it because of kids or menopause?

50-55 MENOPAUSE , and they don't understand if they suck a dick once and a while there guy would be happy ( just saying)

Strong yes on 2, 3 and 5 Plus a rusty trombone.

My married sexual activities are mostly tease and denial. �� Originally Posted by pimp-t

Tease and denial is only fun if you get to actually cum!

Yeah. The cumming part is usually self-service. 😔

It’s mostly just denial. Lol

Yes, if my SO did even half the things the providers/my FWBs do, I wouldn't be here.

I've had my eyes opened by several of them and my SO would think I was a dirty old man if she knew what I liked. Add a bit of spanking to the list above, some light bondage, and just lots of different positions and places.

I've learned a lot, too, from the ladies here and FWB's, much to their (and my SO's) benefit. I wish she'd take lessons from them too for my benefit, but it still wouldn't make her like and WANT to do some of those things. Originally Posted by GoAheadMkMyDay

If your wife were into those things, you’d developed tastes for things that were further down the kink spectrum. Js

Some of you are lying to yourself... I'm not really into greek and i got someone who does 3 - 5 yet I'm here....not because i'm lacking.. i'm just a horny MF that likes variety

Some of you are lying to yourself... I'm not really into greek and i got someone who does 3 - 5 yet I'm here....not because i'm lacking.. i'm just a horny MF that likes variety Originally Posted by justinslayer

Way to be real about the situation...kudos

I could be wrong, but 95% of the men I have met say this...if my wife wanted sex at least "insert whatever time frame You choose", I wouldn't be here. I really do call b.s.. I think men hobby because they like the variety and the adrenaline rush of sneaking around and trying not to get caught. I can't be the ONLY woman that didn't withhold sex during my marriage. Sex feels amazing. I can be mad after I have had an "O" or several.

Right you are, K4U. Weak-willed fuckers tend to justify their deceit by blaming others for it.

I can't be the ONLY woman that didn't withhold sex during my marriage. Sex feels amazing. I can be mad after I have had an "O" or several. Originally Posted by Kendall4U

You must be a unicorn. And a fibber, females do not O.

I love to fuck married women, especially those whose husbands have lost interest. Originally Posted by pyramider

Hell yeah me too.

If wives really cared! LoL

Many years ago I read an interview from a former escort. She said that many hookers would go out of business if the men's wives or girlfriends knew how to give great blow jobs with swallow like providers do. That is on a regular basis.

Here are activities that I enjoy but would never ask my wife to perform for fear that she would find them too gross or would not ask her to perform out of my respect for her:

1. TUMA = tongue up my asshole. The first time I had it performed it felt a little weird but now I really enjoy the added sexual stimulation. This is very commonly provided by Asian providers.

2. Rusty Trombone = she performs TUMA while she strokes my erect penis to pleasure me on both sides of my body. This feels so good.

3. Going Greek since my wife's asshole is too small to even try. She would get weird with that too.

4. Blow job with swallow since my wife thinks swallowing semen is disgusting.

5. Cum on face since my wife finds this disrespectful and nasty.


I am sure that many hobbyists and providers can add specific activities to this list. Originally Posted by Stangl

3 & 5 are HOT!

I love a good rusty trombone provided a freshly shaven and showered instrument.

Things I rarely do in RL sex but LOVE to do:

1) You bring your best buddy over and take turns fucking and cumming inside me.

2) After you fill me with cum in Mish you pull out and blast my clit with your hot stream of piss.

3) I squirt all over your hand and in your mouth while you DATY me with FIV (okay this one is an exception, I do this anytime the oral is good and the guy is persistent, even RL BFs).

4) Daddy daughter and Mommy son role play.

5) I stand up during CG and piss all over your cock at your request.

For some reason RL BFs are never as kinky as men I meet in the hobby!

Originally Posted by milfy2002