Providers, will you see a client who see's TS's?

If that is the case then why do we have ECCIE?

If I was with 2 providers and the scenario that you decribed presented itself then I wouldn't write the review. I feel that it would hurt the one that didn't want one more than it would the one that wanted one.... Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

ECCIE exists because in this area of life there are good and bad people...

Have I seen a lady because 3-4 guys have said a lady is the absolute best at doing ____________ ? I won't answer that because these days I tend to research more and act less.

It is funny that the mention of a TS and activity with such a person has gotten attention.

How about a TRUE bona-fide Hermaphrodyte? aka a person who has both a functional penis and a functional vagina? They can impregnate a lady and become pregnant themselves? (porn search for movies such people, they exist)

Would you see one? Would a provider see a guy who saw one?

would a guy see a provider who saw one?

Nope.

It becomes your business when I choose to make it your business...by posting a review. Originally Posted by john353

+1 .....

John I agree with you to a point....

Do you feel that what happens bcd is only everyone's business when you aren't happy with what happened bcd? Otherwise it's really just reduced to bragging...

Well I don't care "what it makes me" bi or gay. Whatever you wish to call me or classify. The point I'm trying to make is members here are fearful of putting up reviews for fear of being ostricized. That's the whole purpose of this board. Whether it be man, woman, or TS. Now I put my reviews in AR so none of you will have to be "sickened" by reading my review. But the funny thing is the providers have a stronger negative opinion than the men. Now I have an idea as to why some women won't see me because of this and here it is. Some providers I shared this information with asked me outright "did you use protection". WTF? Of course I did. Why would I treat a session with a genetic girl any different than a TS girl. And if you don't see Bi men and you are a Bi provider, isn't that a little hypocritical? I originally turned this into a poll but it didn't take. Mods would you be able to fix it?

ECCIE exists because in this area of life there are good and bad people...

Have I seen a lady because 3-4 guys have said a lady is the absolute best at doing ____________ ? I won't answer that because these days I tend to research more and act less.

It is funny that the mention of a TS and activity with such a person has gotten attention.

How about a TRUE bona-fide Hermaphrodyte? aka a person who has both a functional penis and a functional vagina? They can impregnate a lady and become pregnant themselves? (porn search for movies such people, they exist)

Would you see one? Would a provider see a guy who saw one?

would a guy see a provider who saw one? Originally Posted by Spirit13

I don't know that I would want to see a provider that I knew for a fact was into such things. No different than I won't see a totally submissive provider. I did that once and while I don't have a problem with her being submissive but it was one of the deadest sessions I have ever had. I don't have a problem with the above you have described, I just don't find that attractive at all.

The problem I have with all of this is that if we fouind out a particular provider did certain things that we were completely against being associated with then we would be up in arms about it yet we will keep certain things that "we" find no big deal a secret and take the option of saying no away from a provider by doing so.

Wow that was a long ass sentence lol...

I have a real problem with not giving someone the option of saying no. Now when it comes to a person having std's then I believe people should know but only if the person providing the info should have proof and be willing to share it. I also feel that, that type of info should be shared only by the person with proof not someone that heard a rumor.....

Well I don't care "what it makes me" bi or gay. Whatever you wish to call me or classify. The point I'm trying to make is members here are fearful of putting up reviews for fear of being ostricized. That's the whole purpose of this board. Whether it be man, woman, or TS. Now I put my reviews in AR so none of you will have to be "sickened" by reading my review. But the funny thing is the providers have a stronger negative opinion than the men. Now I have an idea as to why some women won't see me because of this and here it is. Some providers I shared this information with asked me outright "did you use protection". WTF? Of course I did. Why would I treat a session with a genetic girl any different than a TS girl. And if you don't see Bi men and you are a Bi provider, isn't that a little hypocritical? I originally turned this into a poll but it didn't take. Mods would you be able to fix it? Originally Posted by Out_of_Bounds

Personally it makes no difference to me that you see TS's or whomever. That is your choice. But when you flat out say that you hide the fact that you do by contacting certain ladies here thru different methods then I feel that you are wrong. You are taking their right to say no to you away, which tells me you don't like to be told no.

I have no problem being told no EA. The point is they see me and they never knew. Now what would be a real mindf*** is if I told them afterward. Which I wouldn't. I'm not here for that. But many guys won't post reviews on TS's for fear of reprisal. I myself haven't come across a provider I've chosen to see and told her and she wasn't cool with it. So I'm not running around stealing womens option to say no if that's what you think. I'd really like to know though if there are really a lot of providers out there with that sort of attitude. I myself have not come across them in a session. Just on the board.

Nope.

It becomes your business when I choose to make it your business...by posting a review. Originally Posted by john353

So you have made 14 of them our business. My point exactly. Just saying dear.

John I agree with you to a point....

Do you feel that what happens bcd is only everyone's business when you aren't happy with what happened bcd? Otherwise it's really just reduced to bragging... Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Quoting Babe Ruth "It ain't bragging if you can back it up with fact"

We can all say we did something but thats OUR word...

having someone ELSE say "he did all this etc......" or having the lady whom he spent some time with talk about his sexual prowess (or in this case having a provider talk about how good she is doing _________________ is just words on a screen.. when we see a few guys post reviews about her skills at _____________, then it becomes more factual)

When I first expressed my interest to a hobby buddy about the desire he said "keep it to your self". Mainly to avoid grief from other hobbyists, but also providers wouldn't see clients who "walk on the wild side". As a matter of fact it was my first TS review that convinced one provider here to see me. Otherwise she said she wouldn't have. Normally I don't approach women for appointments here, I have other methods. So you wouldn't know. And when I put up a review gentlemen ask about the TS I just reviewed. And you wouldn't know they do either. So why the hate? Originally Posted by Out_of_Bounds

I'm sorry OOB I just assumed after reading your above comment that your reason for contacting providers thru other methods was to keep them from knowing that you like certain things. Since you clarify that, that is not your motives then I was wrong.

Quoting Babe Ruth "It ain't bragging if you can back it up with fact"

We can all say we did something but thats OUR word...

having someone ELSE say "he did all this etc......" or having the lady whom he spent some time with talk about his sexual prowess (or in this case having a provider talk about how good she is doing _________________ is just words on a screen.. when we see a few guys post reviews about her skills at _____________, then it becomes more factual) Originally Posted by Spirit13

So what you are saying is that we are all really just writing reviews to let everyone know that "she" really is as good as she says she is?

If that's the case then what is then point in such a penthouse type description?

I don't know that I would want to see a provider that I knew for a fact was into such things. No different than I won't see a totally submissive provider. I did that once and while I don't have a problem with her being submissive but it was one of the deadest sessions I have ever had. I don't have a problem with the above you have described, I just don't find that attractive at all.

The problem I have with all of this is that if we fouind out a particular provider did certain things that we were completely against being associated with then we would be up in arms about it yet we will keep certain things that "we" find no big deal a secret and take the option of saying no away from a provider by doing so.

Wow that was a long ass sentence lol...

I have a real problem with not giving someone the option of saying no. Now when it comes to a person having std's then I believe people should know but only if the person providing the info should have proof and be willing to share it. I also feel that, that type of info should be shared only by the person with proof not someone that heard a rumor..... Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

When it comes to STD's, yeah.. that is ALERT worthy in any case.

Now, funny thing about STD's, they are not restricted to the gay/bi community.

Point I think a few on here over look is that doing BBFS is risky regardless if its vaginal or anal.

anyone in this hobby has the RIGHT to say NO! guy goes to a lady's place and she is B&S or has a pimp there, he should just turn and run.. if the pimp assaults him.. .well there is an ASSAULT charge which will bring LE into the picture.. and most ladies with pimps tend to stay in 1 central motel so he can keep an eye on his ladies.. last thing the motel wants is cops coming in and giving THEM a hard time as well as making the news.

If its a solo lady and she is not what her ad says and she starts screaming for money because she lied, or you paid for 1 hour and she rushes you and you ask for some back and she steals it.. well post an alert.

So far I have been lucky about seeing ladies who do not have pimps... if I did and the dude decided to give me a hard time..... rest assured.. he would find out just what an ASS I can be.....

I'm no expert on TS providers, and I'll go on the record by saying that I have no interest in venturing forth into that side of the hobby.

However, I will say that not all TS are 100% gay. Some are actually known to have sex with biological women as well as other men. Call it what you want, but that is bi-sexual.

Now, here's a hypothetical situation.

What if one of you chest beating heteros out there has an ATF that took part in a session for mucho dinero...that involved a TS? What if she got fucked in every orifice in her body by another man, the only thing is...he has bigger bolt-ons than she has, and happens to wear lipstick and high heels?

Here's the kicker... She doesn't bother to tell you or anybody else for that matter, because it isn't any of your fricken business. So...you see her because she's your ATF but you have no clue that she just got pounded two hours earlier.......by a TS with a bigger cock than yours.

...and you have no clue because why would she feel the need to tell...you? Who are you...someone special that needs to be informed of every sex partner she chooses to see? Get over yourself.

This hobby is full of risks. Accept it, or take up crochet.

My .02 on the matter.

So what you are saying is that we are all really just writing reviews to let everyone know that "she" really is as good as she says she is?

If that's the case then what is then point in such a penthouse type description? Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Wait!!! there are WORDS in Penthouse?



giving a brief run down on her skills is good, then in the ROS or where ever you put it adding detail makes it better. Adding so much detail that a guy felt like he was there and got the nut on his own just reading it, well hmmm does he pay YOU or the lady ?

There is a point where TMI kicks in and if the review is too long I begin to wonder if one is embellishing?

I agree with everything you've said here spirit. I just don't get people that purposely hide what they are into or hide the type of person they are by keeping handles seperate from their p411 or whatever therefore keeping a woman they want to see from knowing what they are into. There are many that have freely admitted to doing so.....