Out call?

Pangolier's Avatar
Many providers don't have cars, and even if they do, some don't feel comfortable driving themselves to outcall appointments. They charge for uber or drivers/friends who take them. And they charge for the time they spend getting stuck in traffic. Many providers also consider outcall to be riskier.


I would be surprised if either party enjoyed driving to an appointment. I know when I drive in areas I'm not familiar with, it makes me nervous, and I'm dependent on my GPS. I would think trying to read paper map to determine street names would be more dangerous than texting and driving...


On the flip side, I've seen providers charge more for incall too. A girl I really enjoy seeing in another city basically can't accommodate me for incall. She has 2 kids who live at home and rents the house with her brother and cousin, among others I believe. There's almost no opportunity for her to 100% guarantee our privacy during the time slots I'm available. If she got a room at a hotel, I'm sure she'd be charging me over $100 extra for incall too.


I refuse outcall unless I have a hotel room for some other reason. Total hassle of booking, leaving a record of my name, checking in at the front desk, and showing up ahead of time to adjust the room AC, lighting, etc... Plus having a stack of room keys left over in my car got old really fast. I don't risk NCNS by providers anymore, I've found most to be too unreliable for that.
It's all about time. Half hour of driving time in each direction means an hour of commute time to travel both ways.
Gotyour6's Avatar
Sweetie do you really think that a companion wakes up in the morning and says to her cat, “hmmm. Need to make some money today, 10-1. Sooooo, how? Where? Oh I’m so confused!”

The ladies who date are fully aware that they don’t have to Uber or drive their selves to any seedy looking apartment, condo, house, or cheap motel. So then; our girls says, I could go ahead and book a room just in case someone calls, or maybe do an incall here, where I live. But of course outcall is more expensive; car payment, insurance, tires, maintenance. It also includes her travel time to you, and for her to leave and go elsewhere. To me, outcalls would be a nightmare in this traffic and I’d be stressed the whole time with GPS and getting there on time. A NCNS can ruin a lady’s whole week, especially if it was long distance.
Or a CC to use Uber. Originally Posted by GingerKatt
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Grammar much?
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Also keep in mind that many hotels charge for parking. Extra incurred expense.